how can i tell my parents that i want to go out. i know your gonna say that im too young, cause im only 13, but i really like this girl and she already told her parents. the only reason im going out with her is because she is movin in 4 weeks and i want to spend time with her. i asked my mom if she could come over my house and she said yea, but you cnt go into your room. i dont think my parents trust me that much even though they know i wouldnt do nything stupid. how can i tell them that i want to go out with this girl?
2006-11-04 03:18:11 · 10 answers · asked by jimmy f 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i could leave the door open, i never thought about that. i just want to show her my room, nothin big.
2006-11-04 03:34:37 · update #1
Why do you need to go into your room together? If you are pushing to be in your room then all can ask themselves are what is he going to do in his room that he can't do anywhere else. even though you might just want to talk in private without adult ears. Go along as best as possible and be happy you can see her before she moves. You might even build some trust.
2006-11-04 03:23:49 · answer #1 · answered by victoriah68 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you say you wanna go out do you mean, a date, to hang out with her or r you not allowed out at all? Look I'm a mum to 2 kids so hopefully I can help....When I was your age my mum trusted me 100% & was aloud to have boyfriends..I think you shoul tell your mum all about the girl, explain that you have 4 weeks left with her & that you can be trusted in your room with her, make an offer to leave the door open..I know that 13 is young but we have all been there & both your parents would have had the same feelings about some one when they were young too.
If you show them that you can be responible your trust builds up eachtime, also ask them how old were they when there parents started to give them a little trust & how they felt at 13.
I really hope this helps as I think 13 is old enoungh to have some independece....Good luck. x
2006-11-04 05:21:53 · answer #2 · answered by bakebeanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just have a talk with your parents and tell them about this girl. Tell them that you really like her, and that she is moving soon, you wanna spend time with her before she moves. Then tell them that you know thier concerns and respect them, you would not do anything to jeapordize thier trust in you and wont do anything stupid. If you use big words and act grown up about it all, maybe they will see that you are growing up, and deserve a chance to prove yourself as a mature teenager. But I dont see why she needs to see your room, if it is a must to see your room, ask your parent to come with you both because you would really like your friend to see the cool room you have. If you feel the need for privacy with her, then go for a walk or outside in the yard or porch. If you go into your room with her alone without your parents knowing, then your parents find out (believe me they will) then you will have screwed any chances in the future and kiss your parents trust goodbye. GOOD LUCK
2006-11-04 03:44:53 · answer #3 · answered by skybluebabyboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really don't need to be in your room alone at this age. Nothing good can come of it. If you are looking for privacy... go for a walk. The more of a bond that you form with her before she moves the harder it will be on you when she moves anyways.
2006-11-04 03:27:30 · answer #4 · answered by I Ain't Your Momma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to go to your for privacy you could just take a walk or sit on the front porch if you have one, maybe you and your mom could come to a understanding .. you leave your bedroom door open when this girl is in there..it not that they dont trust you or her it is just a respect thing,
2006-11-04 03:31:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you told your mom that you want this young lady to meet her? Suggest to your mom, that maybe she could come over for dinner. Suggest to your mom, that maybe (if it is within walking distance) you two could go get a hamburger or something to eat, or an ice cream.
2006-11-04 06:19:41 · answer #6 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe to the movie or out to get something to eat is OK, and don't think she needs to be in your bed room trust or not that is called respect
2006-11-04 03:24:03 · answer #7 · answered by elizabeth_davis28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go in your room...if all your concerned about is spending time with her be happy your parents let her come over at all
2006-11-04 06:26:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur mom or dad,(the m=one who r most close to u)..and if they dont agree,plz forget about it ,,,,as u r very young,and they mite have a reason to stop u,cause u r a minor
2006-11-04 03:25:17 · answer #9 · answered by shazz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to them tell them that u r responsible enoguh
2006-11-04 03:53:40 · answer #10 · answered by <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋