I feel like nothing good ever happens to me?

Question

My life seriously sucks.
NOTHING EVER goes the way I want it to.
NOTHING GOOD ever happens to me.
EVERYTHING I WANT happens to other people. It's like I ask for something, and someone else ALWAYS gets it, whether they deserve it or not.
It's crazy. I've tried to be as optimistic as possible, and I've actually been pretty happy lately, but it's like underneath I'm like "what's the use?" I feel like an idiot cuz I have such an optimistic outlook, and then things ALWAYS go wrong but I keep keeping on with that stupidass outlook and things just go wrong again, and again, and again...my whole life will probably be this way.

It's like I do no right at all. I wish I was never born, I TRULY honestly do. I'm so sick of being me it's crazy. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO??? help me!

I feel like everyone in this world is so fake. Everyone is so superficial. I absolutely f_cking hate it. I just feel awful right now. I prayed to God that this would get better for the past 3 yrs. But honestly, it's just making it worse. I don't think I even believe in God anymore, which is sad, cuz well I'd never thought I'd say that. But I am now.

Answer 1

do not give up.God is real and i know how you feel on many of these issues.get around positive people and get more involved in positive activities,sports,please learn to not use foul language.thanks.have a nice day

Answer 2

Nothing Ever Happens To Me

Answer 3

Your problem is that you are being pessimistic about everything.

Come on, you've never had someone you've loved? You've never slept in before? You've never been able to take a long, hot shower? You've never found a penny on the ground?

Good things don't always come in big packages, so it's easy to overlook them. Bad things, however, tend to accumulate. And, you are focusing on the bad things.

I was a big pessimist a long time ago. But I learned two things;

1) I was a diabetic. My blood sugar level would affect my mood. No matter how things were going, if my blood sugar was low, the world sucked and nothing was going right. You might want to have your blood sugar checked, too.

2) Everything happens for a reason. We do not always know the reason, nor do we need to know. Have you ever heard of the song, "Unanswered Prayers"? It's about a guy who prays and prays to God for him and his high school sweetheart not to break-up. Well, they still do, of course. But, years later, him and his wife run into his old high school sweetheart, and he realizes all the good things that happened to him because God didn't answer his prayers. If God had, he would have never done a lot of things in life, such as meet his wife, whom he loves a lot more than he ever loved his high school sweetheart.

And, if you really want, here's another story. I take it you listen to Eminem. Now here's a guy who all his life, bad things happened. You know what, because of those bad things, he became famous. Do you think that he would have a rap career if things went good is whole life? No. His pain gave him not only things to rap about, but it also gave him his drive. And sure, bad things still happen to him, but at the same time, is he still on welfare? Is he still living in a trailer home? No.

Answer 4

I don't know what to say about the way you are feeling because you are obviously feeling so much its getting on top of you. I will say that in a situation such as yours where you can no longer be happy about anything you should try to talk to someone close you aren't going to get the answers you deserve off the computer nobody is going to wave a magic wand and make the hurt and feelings you have disappear this is going to take time and when it comes to believing in god he works in mysterious ways they say.

Answer 5

hmm...have you ever talked to the Doctor about the way you are feeling? I feel the same way sometimes more now then 2 weeks ago.
This past Saturday..one week today I totalled my car it went into a skid and flipped up on it's windshield and glided across the road. I got out of the car and thanked God for not letting me meet him just yet. I walked away from the accident with no major injuries.
Now, I am fighting with my Insurance company and my boyfriend more now about this accident and I am in the middle of buying a new car and I was so sure I wouldn't get approved for the loan...but I am approved. I can't stop thinking so Negetivly...it's affecting my everyday life and relationships.

What I am trying to say is that things happen for a reason and you just have to stop and think to yourself in a positive manner, if you don't you are going to take everything in a Negetive tone and no one is going to like you or your attitude. I ahve learned the hard way. I almost got kicked out of my home as well buy feeling as though I am the "victim".

Please try to be postive...everything will turn out for the better in the long run, just have Patience. In the Bible I believe it's in James...Jesus talks about Patience.
Just try to be Patient and things will come together for the better.

Answer 6

This is a true statement "what you believe is true" despite reality. Also, you are looking to the externals of people and maybe instead of putting blame or responsibility on others such as "god", "luck" or "hope", you continue to make yourself a victim of yourself. Thats what children do.
Become principle valued. Instead of status, family, religious, career valued because each view has a skewed point of view. Principle value doesn't include status, family, religious or career.
The disadvantage of status view, someone will always have more than you. Disadvantage of family, family can be dysfunctional and can become narcistic or nepatism. Disadvantage of career, "I'm a doctor. I'm a lawyer", you weren't born that way and you piss in the same toilet as everybody else.
The disadvantage of religious view, just look at the elections, the middle east and how it can be used as mind control.
Principle value: you are part of a larger spectrum, you need others in your life to give support and to receive support (be wairy of their perspectives as in the listed examples). Remember whether you sleep in a mansion or in a box your dreams will be the same. Also everyone has pieces of do-do inside them.

Answer 7

1. look at who you call god. Is is Jesus or is it the situation?
2. get out and do something. Only you can change things in your situation.
3. Look at what you are confessing/or saying.
4.What are you going to do about it?
5. get involved- when ou help some one else and you do things for others, you will get your mind off of yourself and God will make happen to you!!!!

Answer 8

u should appreciate things what u have eg u can eat well u can buy nice clothes u r healthy n U R STILL strong.
life is not easy, my advice is goin out at weekends, drink a bit n tell ur problems to ur friends after go to beautician or wherever what makes u relaxed n happy.
appreciate what u have n whho u r. be proud of urself, u r worth for self-esteem n happiness.

Answer 9

Well first of all thinks never go the way you want them to. My life isn't the way I want it but me waiting around for something to happen it will never happen just pray about it everyday and make sure that you are on the right path and something good will come to you . do not wait around for it because life is not always the way we plan in , but its the way we go about it. stop thinking negative, you will never get anthing positive.

Answer 10

i think u r looking at the only things going wrong n ignoring good ones that r happening to u as u r keeping only bad effects of bad things in ur mind..
take some time n give time to happenings around u..everything will be fine.

Answer 11

it's not that really nothin good happened to u but it seems like u dont appericate things enough and the first time to learn how to appericate things,u should appericate that every bad thing happens for a good reason..so if any bad thing happens to u,just be thankfull this happened to u coz u learned somethin from it,believe me if u do that soon u will notice that there r some good things happens to u