My husband and I have trouble communicating. It seems like he just has doesnt put to much thought into the things that we need to talk about. When he does answer me it is usally sarcastic or has nothing to do with the issue. And futher more, he will blame me for everything. Help, I dont know what to do. What i do know is; if we dont start talking soon, like when we were just freinds, we are not going to make it and we have only been married since feb of 2005
2006-11-04 02:32:00 · 7 answers · asked by jtyt4225 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sometimes I find that when people are like this the best thing to do is write him a letter that tells him how you are felling and how you would like things to be. Leave the note on the table or where he will see it, leave the house so that he will read the whole note and have time to think about the things that he could do to make things right. Make sure you ask in the letter if there is any thing that you can do to help. It goes both ways you have to give a little to get a little. Make sure you are gone long enough so he has time to think.
2006-11-04 03:10:22 · answer #1 · answered by smallsassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out while you can. you are the only one putting into the relationship. find some one who will share 100%/100%. since everything is your fault in his eyes, accept it and go. let him find someone esle to blame
2006-11-04 03:22:58 · answer #2 · answered by avanging bride 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sarcastic? Never talks straight?
Are you sure he didnt use to be a woman?
2006-11-04 02:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u guys are still too young?
talk to him and say if you won't start to take things siriously our mariage will be over!
GOOD LUCK! trust me everything will change in a good way.
2006-11-04 02:34:35 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't sound interested anymore anyways, guess you should have stayed engaged longer. tell him how you feel
2006-11-04 02:35:18 · answer #5 · answered by mnm4213 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's angry about something. Find out what's bothering him.
2006-11-04 02:34:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SO sorry but he is being unrealistic and stupid ...Talk to him and tell him how you feel...
2006-11-04 02:35:18 · answer #7 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋