I dont know what to do.. this morning "the day after" her stomach hurts and she feels like vomiting.. they didnt use a condom and he did *** in her.. shes afraid she might be pregant.. if u can hep please do.. People that are just going to say crap like she should not of done it please dont post anything because she really needs a answer, we are all human and we all make mistakes...but we learn from them..
Thanks. Christina
2006-11-04 02:24:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Her symptoms are more likely to result from anxiety than anything else- especially if this is her first time.
She needs to relax take some deep breaths and don't fret at this point. She does however, really need to think aobut her actions and the consequences- right now she is freaking out and thinking I will never do it again but the fact is, if she is feeling like this she is not ready- unfortunately when she finds out she is not pregnant and all is okay, it gets ewasier and easier to slip into this behavior and pretty soon the phyisical consequences will be real.
If she was going to become pregnant , it owuld take a couple of days and you wont see symtoms for a little longer than that.
I am not speaking from the judgemental point of view but from experience- most oyung girls make this mistake but don't learn from it- I really hope she learns and I really hope that she can stand up to her boyfriend and say if oyu really truly care aobut me then oyu will wait- because if he did he would not want her to have to deal with this anxiety and 9 times out of 10 he is nowhere near ready to handle having a baby and the responsibility that comes with that. And just for the record- both of my children and 2 out of 3 of my miscarriages occured during 'safe sex' Abstinence is the BEST policy. Not only do oyu not have to worry about the physical consequences but the emotional burdens are not an issue either - it is just not worth it.
In about 3 weeks, if she is still having anxiety issues, go get a pregnancy test- often there are clinics that will do the test free of charge and anonymously, depending on where you live- but I encourage her to talk to a parent or some other adult she trusts to help keep her accountable and making good choices for her life.
2006-11-04 02:55:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No pregnancy symptoms come up the day after having sex-so her stomach ache & nasuea have nothing to do with pregnancy. It is to soon for her to have any implantation or to even be pregnant. It takes anywhere from 7-9 days for implantation and then it still takes a little while to get any pregnancy symptoms.
2006-11-04 10:32:10 · answer #2 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's usually not an overnight process. Generally you wouldn't know if you were pregnant until you would miss your next period. If your friend's stomach hurts and she feels like vomiting, it's not because she is or isn't pregnant. Something else (probably nerves) is making that happen. If she is really worried, tell her to go to her doctor or a clinic and they can give her more information.
2006-11-04 10:30:23 · answer #3 · answered by Laura 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No she cannot be pregnant today. It takes at least a couple of days for sperm to penetrate completely. I'm sorry, but if your 'friend' doesn't know this at least, she has no business having unprotected sex.
Your stomach doesn't get hard until you are further along. (Like say, 6-7 months) If 'her' stomach hurts she should see 'her' doctor. Also, isn't your 'friend' afraid that it might be an STD or an infection? I think that's way more likely than pregnancy at this point. Good luck to your 'friend'!
2006-11-04 10:28:14 · answer #4 · answered by *Jessy* 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only way she could be pregnant today from having sex last night, is if she was already pregnant to begin with. Symptoms of pregnancy would not show up this early.Good Luck!
2006-11-04 10:27:02 · answer #5 · answered by BlairBear 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Alright this is what you do go to the store and get the pregnancy test that is especially for the day after if she is already vomiting then she probably is not because if have never heard of that the day after let me know whats happens i wish you the best
2006-11-04 10:31:12 · answer #6 · answered by prinessa23 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I agree with first responder. There can be no indication of pregnancy until implantation occurs, which may take a few days. It will take longer yet for enough changes to take place to be detectable, even by a physician.
2006-11-04 10:46:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take her to a doctor immediatly. Youll have to tell her parents uless you (the friend) can drive. I don not reccomend letting her drive in her fragile condition. I know this is not the awnser you want to here but it sounds as if she is pregnant, but the only way to find out is if you take her to docotor and if it isnt because shes pregnant you should go to find out what is causing her all this pain.
2006-11-04 10:33:53 · answer #8 · answered by laurenvictoria27 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She could be pregnant, but she won't know until her next period is scheduled to come around. Maybe she wants to be pregnant and she is psyching herself up. Maybe she is sick because of something she ate. She needs to wait, and take a pregnancy test if her period is late.
2006-11-04 10:33:41 · answer #9 · answered by SAGAL79 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if a baby was conceived last night, she wouldnt have symptoms showing that quickly. it will take 3-4 weeks to even find out she is pregnant and begin to feel some symptoms. and next time....try a condom...they do work wonders mmm k?
2006-11-04 10:47:14 · answer #10 · answered by clubsandra 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋