Give detailed answers and not a yes or no.
2006-11-04 02:15:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
And if he isn't romantic, what would you like to change about him?
2006-11-04 02:16:51 · update #1
Some of you didn't explain how your husbands are romantic.
2006-11-04 02:19:24 · update #2
I didn't say romance had to be about flowers and candy. I'm asking you how your hubbies are romantic (or not) to YOU.
2006-11-04 02:22:12 · update #3
Hell No!! My husband won't even give me a little kiss unless I ask for it. I've told him that I would like kisses more often and him to hold my hand some times even in the house while we are watching TV. He said I don't like having you all over me. He wasn't always like this not at all, for the first 2 years he was by me all of the time. I often wonder if he is cheating on me.
2006-11-04 04:07:22 · answer #1 · answered by smallsassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I try to be romantic with my wife all the time. Not romantic in a sexual way, more intimate in nature.
Call her at work, just to tell her I was thinking bout her and I love her. Pick her up little gifts here and there, just because I want to. Leave her little love notes in her lunch bag (Sometimes Make her lunch too). Send her Ecards to her before she gets to work just to say I love & miss her.
Simple little things. It is not about the cost or what you do. It is the fact that you took the time and made the effort. I make it my goal to do something nice for her everyday.
A minute of my time to do something nice and make her smile is the least I can do for her. I don't like to say that she is a trophy wife or anything like that, but lets face it. Every women deserves to be pampered and put up on the high horse and treated like a queen. If for no other reason then she is my queen and I want her to know it.
The hardest part is to give without expectation or a need to recipricate the act. That is the true meaning of giving, doing so with no strings attached. Give just because you want to and want to make her feel good. Knowing that she feels good, is my reward.
2006-11-04 10:47:49 · answer #2 · answered by SRC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my husband is romantic in his own little way. Like, he doesnt buy my flowers everyday, but he does make sure that i get my Coke every morning, and sometimes he will wake up early on the weekend, and sneak out and but breakfast for us, or he will lay on my side of the bed before i get in to warm it up for me....i am grateful that my husband is the way he is. I dont really even want flowers everyday, i think that being romantic means doing something from the heart that you know the other person will love and appreciate...no matter what it is.
2006-11-04 10:41:24 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is. Romance is not about a dozen roses or long strolls on the beach. It's about letting me know that I'm appreciated and the most beautiful women in the world in his eyes. It's lazy Sundays on the couch, and a dinner and movie in the middle of the week. When you feel like there is no one else you'de rather have hold your hand when you go in for a biopsy or win the lottery, that's romance. I hope you and everyone else truly will know that feeling.
2006-11-04 10:20:10 · answer #4 · answered by Nicki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not a woman but I am going to blow my own horn.
For our third anniversary (which is leather) I made my wife a leather bound book. Into the cover I hand tooled a hart shaped chain of African Violets, which happens to be the same as a tattoo she has. I used parchment paper for the pages. In the book I included all of the poems I had written to her over the years and well as poems by Maya Angelou and others that meant something to her, song lyrics, etc. All written in calligraphy which I learned for just this project.
and it worked too... I got sex!!!
Sorry, I know that this question wasn't meant for me but I am pretty proud of that gift.
2006-11-04 10:25:34 · answer #5 · answered by David P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he is not. Every now and then he will do something little, like give me a kiss on the cheek when he thinks I'm asleep. He may not be romantic, but that little kiss makes up for it all to me.
2006-11-04 10:20:28 · answer #6 · answered by lil star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is romantic in his own way. He doesn't go for big birthday or Valentine's purchases because that just freaks him out.
But if he knows I want something, he'll often surprise me with it. He never says "no" if there's something I'm wanting to buy.
When we go out to movies or events he always save the stubs and mementos of the evening. He gets up early in the morning and tidies up the house before I get up and we cuddle in front of the couch and before we go to bed. He finds thoughtful things and buys them for me. When I'm sick he comes by every 20 minutes or so to check on me. He's very sweet in his own way.
2006-11-04 10:41:40 · answer #7 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, very romantic its been 10 years we've been together and he still gives me butterflies, with him you never know what to expect.
every anniversary is something new, he puts so much effort in to it. In the long run all we're going to have are memories and our stories.
2006-11-04 10:21:54 · answer #8 · answered by sexyice82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend isnt romantic in the flowers and candy sense, but he shows me that he loves me every day and thats what romantic to me.
2006-11-04 10:17:58 · answer #9 · answered by magickitty0621 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is romantic! He does little things for me that show he cares and thinks about me all day long. If he gets gas in his car, he goes in and gets me a diet coke to bring home to me...just because he cares.
2006-11-04 10:17:45 · answer #10 · answered by lisamomde2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋