help i have a friend at school and we are best friends. we hang out all the time and we eat lunch together. we are in the same classes. yesterday he told me that if i dont kiss him he will turn gay because of me and i don't know what i should do. should i kiss him? or should i tell him something else? i don't want to lose him as a friend because we have lots of laughs together. please help!!!
2006-11-04 01:49:14 · 12 answers · asked by Buzz All Children 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He either likes you so much that he had to think of a way to get you to kiss him so he made a joke. Or he is gay & that's his way of trying to tell you.
2006-11-04 02:09:16 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since he is your best friend, he will understand when you tell him that it is not nice to try to manipulate you. He is not going to turn gay if you do not kiss him. He just likes you and is finding himself attracted to you and does not know how to express it. If you like him that way too, it is fine. But if you do not like him that way, it is also fine. Either way, you should never allow yourself to be pressured into doing something you are not comfortable doing. You can tell him that you feel like if you don't kick him in the butt your foot is going to fall off...it's pretty much the same logic he threw at you. If he is really your friend, he still will be.
2006-11-04 10:01:49 · answer #2 · answered by William E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a friend kiss. Just because you kiss doesn't mean he'll turn gay. If he's gay, he's gay. I think he's trying to get you to kiss him. Ask him why, don't ask us in Yahoo land.
2006-11-04 09:52:32 · answer #3 · answered by DMBthatsme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HES JUST FULL OF IT ...2 kiss doesnt decide if your gay or not....your born with it...he is gay or a jerk for trying to use you for sex ...its not just a kiss im shure about that...laying the guilt trip is the lowest you can get..almost as bad as rape
2006-11-04 09:57:18 · answer #4 · answered by acierman2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is handing you some bull crap.
'He is not going to turn gay just because you dont kiss him (unless he already is lol) so dont let him fool you.
If he i s this threatning type person look for another stud.
He is only going to continue to play mind games with you.
2006-11-04 09:52:59 · answer #5 · answered by apostle1938 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to kiss him then kiss him, if you dont want to then dont and just tell him why, he isn't going to turn gay because of it
2006-11-04 10:04:31 · answer #6 · answered by mnm4213 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people who are gay arent so bad they are really really nice and if he turns gay u could still be friends ut i would advise u not to kiss him b/c if it is meant to be gay then he will be and he cant change that.
2006-11-04 09:53:35 · answer #7 · answered by austin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A true friend wouldn't put you on the spot like that.
2006-11-04 09:52:42 · answer #8 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A true friend would not put that kind of pressure on you. Rethink this relationship.
2006-11-04 09:53:07 · answer #9 · answered by sheeny 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm, that's tough, maybe you should kiss him but if he is really gay maybe he should "come out".
2006-11-04 09:54:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋