2006-11-04 01:37:15 · 10 answers · asked by jimbo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
no. it is too hard once one of you move on. They may still communicate but, it is jsut to hard and too awkward to be friends with an ex...I mean, friends talk about there relationships and friends go around friends when they are with there significant other can u imagine seeing your ex with someone else? If the answer is no then there is no way you can be friends...
2006-11-04 01:40:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Sorry.
Ex-lovers should avoid each other like the failed biological experiment that they are.
At its core, love and romance are all about pair bonding for the purposes of reproduction. This is how life achieves immortality - through the successful transmission of genetic patterns to posterity.
If the pair bonding fails, for whatever reason, then the possibilities of successful reproduction are nil. Investing energy in a no-win game is not only pointless, it is insane.
I know it's a fun game. Shoot, what would be the point if immortality were boring? But reduced to its true, basic nature, love and romance and all that jazz are about making babies.
Cheers.
2006-11-04 01:39:02 · answer #2 · answered by Grendle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can ex lovers still love each other and be ex lovers????
Don't know much from your question, but on the surface, I don't think so. Move on.
2006-11-04 01:45:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love one another, you can't be friends, as it is usually too painful... You are not together for a reason, but you will keep a soft spot in your heart for them. That might be the love you are referring to.
A friendship takes complete honesty and I think the past relationship and the feelings will over shadow any chance of being just friends.. Too much history, you have to let each other grow alone. You were together for a reason and now that reason has been fulfilled.. move on....don't drag your baggage behind you
2006-11-04 01:48:19 · answer #4 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they very much can!! I am still good friends with one of my exes..and I do still love him i always will I'm just not in love with him anymore. Him and my husband are friends also. It just depends on what the breakup was like and how good of a relationship you had in the first place. It can happen!!!!
2006-11-04 02:51:20 · answer #5 · answered by Veronica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you're going to end up "lovers" again...you should know this old cliche: friends can be lovers but lovers can't be friends".
2006-11-04 02:01:15 · answer #6 · answered by ladyhawke 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say "no" to this question.Human beings r emotional creatures.when both decided to break up,they shouldnt be anymore contact at all.Otherwise,both parties will be suffering bcoz sometimes we will tend to think of sth that we already know it wont happen
2006-11-04 01:44:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope-an ex should always be someone you no longer talk to or see. It's a clean break that way.
2006-11-04 01:39:57 · answer #8 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no sounds like unfinished business...
2006-11-04 01:59:15 · answer #9 · answered by crystal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes they can !
2006-11-04 01:39:16 · answer #10 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋