2006-11-04 01:31:54 · 15 answers · asked by sweetu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
YOU KNOW.....GIRLS LIKE YOU DESERVE TO BE DITCHED....
GALS LIKE YOU GET INTO A RELATION EVEN THOUGH YOU KNOW FROM THE BEGINING THAT IT WON'T WORK....
YOU YOURSELF CREATE THE PROBLEM N THEN ASK EVERYONE TO HELP YOU OUT.....
LISTEN MADAM !!!!!!! MOST OF THE GUYS R DESPERATE AS WILD ANIMALS.....ITZ NOT YOUR INTERNAL BEAUTY THAT DRAWS THEM TOWARDS YOU.....MAY B UR BEAUTIFUL PHYSICALLY THATZ WHY HE WAS WITH YOU...SO THAT ONE DAY HE GETS A CHANCE TO DO THAT 4 LETTER THING...
DONT GET ME WRONG.....BUT THIS IS HOW IT GOES....
N WHY R U IN SUCH HURRY TO GET INTO A RELATION...R U KINDAA DESPERATE THAT ALL OTHER GALS HAV BF SO I SHOULD ALSO HAVE 1....
SEE IF YOUR SOMEONE WHO IS ON THE LOOKOUT FOR TRUE LOVE...I SUGGEST YOU TO TAKE YOUR TIME BEFORE YOU GET INTO A RELATION...
SEE TO UNDERSTAND SOMEONE...TO KNOW SOMEONE BETTER ITZ NOT NECESSARY THAT A GUY SHOULD BE YOUR BOYFRIEND OR HE SHOULD BE SITTING RIGHT NEXT TO YOU.....
THE GUY WHO REALLY LOVES YOU WONT DITCH YOU LIKE YOU BF DID....
YOU KNOW...GALS LIKE YOU DONT GIVE TIME TO A RELATIONSHIP TO GROW.....
N IF YOUR SOMEONE WHO IS USED TO CHANGING BF'S EVERY FEW WEEKS...PLZZZZZZ DON WASTE YOUR TIME HERE...ALRIGHT...??????
MAY B MY WORDZ MIGHT HURT U OR MIGHT OFFEND YOU...IF THEY DID I'M SORRY BUT......THATZ THE TRUTH....THIS IS LIFE.....A REAL LIFE....WITH PAIN N SORROW @ EVERY CORNER...SO IF U WANT TO STOP THE TEARS COMIN OUT OF YOUR EYES...N IF U WANT 2 C A SMILING FACE OF URS EVERY MORNING....
1ST CHANGE URSELF.......DON MAKE HASTY DECISIONS...
MAY YOU HAV A BRIGHT FUTURE AHEAD OF U....IN EVERY ASPECT....N I GUESS YOUR NAME IS SWEETY SO THE SWEETNESS IS ALREADY THERE...ALL YOU NEED TO DO IS STIR IT A BIT.....
KEEP SMILING....N TAKE CARE.....N B HAPPY ALWAYS...GUD NITE..
2006-11-04 06:13:52 · answer #1 · answered by vijay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you normally do when you lose some money? You are temporarily sad. Very sad maybe, depending on the amount lost. But then you do shake yourself up and say, "Hey! Why am I sad? I've got to get going. What's lost is lost. I can't get it back. Let's make an effort to earn it back, maybe more."
Depending on how much you loved your boyfriend, you must be feeling very bleak indeed. But as he has ditched you (for no fault of yours, I hope), you can't do anything. If you want to get him back at all costs, it will only show your desperation. You will only end up looking cheaper in his eyes. So, if you are thinking of doing anything like that, drop the idea.
Take comfort in the belief that your fickle boyfriend does not deserve a nice girl like you. Its good for you that he has left. You deserve somebody far better. Don't be despondent. Take your time and wait for the right man in your life.
2006-11-04 02:00:46 · answer #2 · answered by Modest 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even if it may be hard to do now, I would suggest you try to hide your feelings for him, put a smile on your face and treat him in the way you would treat your other male friends and acquaintances. Time is your friend and healer. Maybe he will realize he made mistake, maybe life will teach him that true love is rare and precious. Whatever happens to him wish him well and bless your break up for it is your chance to meet someone else who will love you and respect you more. Remember that the wounded ego is easily mended by the passage of time, but the damaged self esteem is more difficult to repair. Chin up!
2006-11-04 02:16:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And why would he ditch you? Was it your fault, or he just fall in for someone else. If its your fault, you should take a step, and try building relation again, by saying sorry.
If its not, Hata Sawan Ki Ghata. For a girl there should not be any problem to find another man.
2006-11-04 22:01:52 · answer #4 · answered by manoj Ransing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry U first find wether it is the love or Infactuation IF U find it as love then leave it Bcoz he will come TO U sooner or later If U find it as the Infactuation then continue with him as the good Friend of him BCoz friendship is above GOD.
2006-11-04 02:16:01 · answer #5 · answered by Ramasubramanian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever happens is for your good! May be he was never right for you in the first place. Don't get depressed, have confidence and move on. Your life is too good to waste on a guy that is not worth it!
Good luck gal!
2006-11-04 01:41:50 · answer #6 · answered by mads 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to go now is to let him go. be patient. if he doesn't seem to be bothered about your well being after all what has happened then you are better off without him .frankly, he was never yours from the beginning.so try to get over him if this is the situation. but lets hope that its turns out good for you.
2006-11-04 01:39:09 · answer #7 · answered by niceguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let him go, if you really love him like you said, you'll be happy for him no matter what. and if ditching you makes him happy then let him. and always remember that time will heal every broken hearts and friends will always be there. so go to them, have fun, and don't let your heart takes the toll of you.
2006-11-04 01:50:19 · answer #8 · answered by krystlehanifah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, as hard as it is, you have to get over him. We have all been there. You will go on. Trust me on this.
2006-11-04 01:35:02 · answer #9 · answered by sheeny 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
y did u ditch him in the first place? =/
2006-11-04 01:50:17 · answer #10 · answered by Moochie Bean! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋