2006-11-04 01:25:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yes. Sex is sex. And sex is a turn on. It doesn't mean that you're homosexual, bisexual, or even attracted to men. It's the actions, the movements, the feel of something erotic.
No worries.
2006-11-04 01:28:11 · answer #1 · answered by DoloresHaze 2 · 7⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry about it. Don't want to sound sexist, but it seems to me that men can get turned on by just about anything:-)
There's a theory that only a minorityof people are 100% straight or 100% gay, and that most of us are somewhere in between. Because being straight is seen as "normal" in our culture, most people pursue a straight lifestyle unless they are right up at the gay end of the spectrum.
But anyway, you feel straight, you're primarily attracted to women, so no big deal about the porn site.
I'm much more worried about your computer than your sexual orientation........you need to get some help with the security on your computer. If it's so bad that that you're gettting unwanted popups, you may also be vulnerable to viruses or hackers.
2006-11-04 12:11:51 · answer #2 · answered by mcfifi 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You might just be curious and you may just be one of many bisexual men out there. It just happens that women are more open about this then men. Maybe if you know the source of being gay/straight/ and Bisexual, it would help you understand.
Let me explain. There are several theories as to why a person is 'born' gay/bi/straight. The most prominent I have read is a work by Simon Le Vay. He determined - through autopsy - that gay men and straight men have one single difference: the size of their hypothalamus (a gland in the middle of your brain and well known to be the source of sexual sitmulation in human beings). With gay men it is small and fluffy were as in straight men, it is solid and large. He repeated this experiment with lesbian and straight women and found the reverse. Straight women had small/fluffy gland were as lesbian has large/denser gland.
So hypothalamus size wise:
Gay men = Straight women
Lesbian women = Straight men
Following years of studies, he determined that this gland is developed before birth. When he examined pregnant mothers during period of pregnancy he found that this gland gets developed during the 6th month of pregnancy. If the mother body thinks she has a daughter, she would give Oestrogen (female hormone). If she thinks she has male son, she would give Testosterone (male hormone). For some un-explained reason, the mother would give the wrong hormone. Depending on how long this hormone is given, the child may come up as Bisexual, straight acting gay guy, camp gay guy, or in extreme cases transsexual (a person who believes he is in the wrong body!).
Research into how to determine why this switch happens has been blocked. From one side, the church and religious groups would not accept it (because this would mean centuries of prosecuting gay/lesbians was a crime but more importantly it is a serious shake to their belief). From the other side, gay groups have pressured government and other organisation not to proceed in such research because this would mean there is a way to eliminate gays from existence! Hosptial scans can determine if a mother has son/daugther and a simple blood test can deterimine what hormone the mother is giving. The latest work as done by an Italian scientist two years ago who tried to determine if the mother had a genetic differences that results in this switch and managed to find some correlation in that most mothers with gay/lesbian children had actually gay/lesbian brothers and sisters!
And if you are wandering how a bisexual man/woman hypothalamus would look, well it is medium size/denisty, they got mix of hormones and thus they would like both! One research suggested that 4% of any popluation are totally gay, 4% are totally straight, and 92% of people are actually bisexual (some varying from feeling attracted once in your life time to same sex, to those who are 50/50 all the time). It might just be that once in a life time. You are now just a 'curious' man, nothing to worry about. Personally, you better off being straight...the grass always looks greener on the otherside! ;-)
Dr. F.S
2006-11-06 04:42:32 · answer #3 · answered by Fadi S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't know what you mean by normal but there is nothing wrong with it. I think two boys kissing and going at it is sooo hott and maybe the idea of two guys being together is a little of a turn on to you even though ur a boy. You shouldn't be worried unless ur wanting to be with another guy and do things with him like what you saw on the pop up. If it goes to that point then maybe ur not really straight...u might be bisexual but even then there wouldn't be anything to worry about. It's nothing wrong with a boy getting turned on by another boy. I think it's hott! You can still be straight and find it sexy for two guys to have sex. But if you don't wanna be homosexual or bisexual then...(Hey u can't really help that...if u are then u are) but if you like boys too just take it as another sexual experience and something new and different. There is absolutely nothing wrong with it. (I'm a straight girl by the way)
2006-11-04 09:38:45 · answer #4 · answered by iluvashtonkutcher676 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, I think your just curious about the whole thing. Best advice I can give you is be honest with yourself, you dont wanna get married to a girl, have loads of kids and then leave her for a man. You will end up hurting alot of people.
You can't help how you feel, so the sooner your honest with yourself the better...
Give it try, if your nervous just take it slowly. Try not to let it get to you tho its not worth it.
If your worried about "AIDS" which many people tend to think ALL gays have STDs then i wouldnt listen to them, there is such thing as safe sex. Just like straight people right? Its a well known fact that there are more straight people that have AIDS than Gay people.
2006-11-05 04:51:09 · answer #5 · answered by PTGUY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, for a gay guy. How does gay porn just pop up on a computer?
2006-11-04 11:18:12 · answer #6 · answered by gc27858 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok....that which is sick, that which is abnormal, that which is nasty, that which is different and that which is normal.... will all turn a man on...because they think with the head not designed to think...
Is it normal? NO, but then what man is normal?
2006-11-04 15:23:15 · answer #7 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My computer has never had a gay porn pop-up--that is definitely NOT normal. Do you have pop-up blocker?
2006-11-04 09:33:18 · answer #8 · answered by Faith 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't worry about it. Everyone should explore their sexuality. Explore it a little deeper to see if you were really turned on or just curious. Either way is OK.
2006-11-04 09:31:32 · answer #9 · answered by superspiker69 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What is 'normal' ??!!
We are human beings - seeing skin and sexy action is bound to turn you on, no matter what the source is!
Take it easy!
2006-11-05 06:05:32 · answer #10 · answered by rainbowarrior73 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋