I'm a straight guy, but curious, so how do I know if a gay man is interested in me or attracted to me?? What if they try to make a move on me or even hit on me?? How should I respond??
2006-11-04 01:17:54 · 5 answers · asked by franz_duenas 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
just go with your feelings , if you want too try it then go for it , you might find out you really like it ,
2006-11-04 01:22:40 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same exact way as if a woman that you are not interested did.
I think most will tell you they are gay to see if you say you are gay too.
some are bold & some are not.
the game is all the same. weather male/female male/male female/female.
I am straight but have been hit on by guys. I say I don't swing that way. Then they look embarrassed ,say they are sorry, meant no offense and leave.
that has been my experience.
to answer your question on how. this is only me so I don't know about anyone else... but a guy smiled at me...you know the type of smile. The same smile I would give a woman if I am trying to get her attention. a flirting smile. another time in a dance club,when my girl was in the bathroom and I was waiting for her a guy came up to me and told me I was a attractive dude. I said thanks for the compliment but I dont swing that way.
now before you say it, ya ya I am a "pretty" looking man. but not feminine. so give me a break dude.
2006-11-04 01:33:06 · answer #2 · answered by anotherpainintheazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to worry about this, in most cases a gay man is not going to find a straight man interesting. We all enjoy eye candy, but that's about looking not touching. Most gay men want someone who is going to find them attractive and interesting, and now that would not be you, correct? Any time anyone, male or female makes an unwanted advance, simply tell them no thank you, not interested.
2006-11-04 01:34:52 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally i have found that if they are attracted to you, they come back for seconds,
2006-11-04 07:12:55 · answer #4 · answered by scary g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
post a pic and i'll tell you if your hot. and if someone hits on you and youre not interested just say thanks dude but i'm not interested, but be nice. you know (i'm assuming) how shitty it feels if you get shot down badly.
2006-11-04 06:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋