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We have talked about this and he's not really sure why he isn't interested in sex anymore. I know he would tell me if he knew why, even if it was me. He says it's not me, he is still affectionate and very loving...he's just not interested in sex anymore. I would think for most women this would be a good thing but I have a very healthy sex drive and this is driving me crazy! I know about Viagra, etc...but this only helps get it up...not with desire. Does anyone know how to increase his drive? We have also tried certain vitamins...no help. Has anyone else had this problem?

2006-11-04 01:05:57 · 24 answers · asked by Tina M 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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It can be many things. From depression to a sexual identity crisis. Or even infidelity and guilt. He needs to talk to someone about it. Start with the family Doctor to make sure it's not a medical issue. If that comes back clean...seek psychological help...

But just my observation... I am inclined to believe it's psychological vs medical. And you are right...Viagra helps performance not the inner drive.

2006-11-04 01:13:40 · answer #1 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0 0

You are married to your husband. Therefore dont ask such questions about your own husband. He is your husband till death.
You cant expect men to have their thing standing up 24 *7. Thats not how it is. What is so great about a woman that 24*7 men should have their thing standing up? It is only teenagers who always keep having erections.And thats because they have never experienced what a woman is. Once a man has seen a woman and experienced her...most men feel...what the hell...what is so great that so many years I was fantasing about?
If you have so much of sex drive then you are abnormal. Please check with a doctor.
Girls like you are today ruining our society.

2006-11-04 01:56:56 · answer #2 · answered by dvkhnn 1 · 0 0

I have experienced such a thing. The first thing that you need to do is check the side effects of any medication that he is currently taking. A lot will cause decreased libido. Gen-sing and Yohimbe are 2 herbs that has proven they work. Viagra will work on both the erection and the desire. I don't car what anyone says, if you give yourself a drug inhibited erection, you are going to want to do something with it!

2006-11-04 01:15:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well it depends on how old your husband is as men age they are less and less interested in sex. My husband on the other hand is the other way around lol. It could be many reasons it could be a health issue or a mental issue anyway you look at it he needs to seek help and find out what is wrong. Good luck

2006-11-04 05:32:52 · answer #4 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0 0

If his Testosterone level is low he can either get a shot about every two weeks or use patches. Most medical plans cover it either way. A simple blood test will determine if this is the cause of his low sex drive.

2006-11-04 02:30:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

my current husband went through a period were he lost all desire too he finally went to the doctor and he had a low blood count and a thyroid problem after a few weeks on his thyroid pills he was back in action and so was i if he is reluctant to seek medical help start bringing up sex toys and vibrators hell go to the doc quick like

2006-11-04 01:19:20 · answer #6 · answered by auntie s 4 · 1 0

This depends on his age and medical condition. After 18, testosterone goes down, and after 40 there could be difficulties. He should go see a urologist for a checkup and testing.

2006-11-04 01:42:42 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0 0

Tell him you would be willing to bring in another woman or a man for a threesome or do anything else he may like to get him interested in sex again and see if that helps.

2006-11-04 07:33:49 · answer #8 · answered by unionjack07 2 · 0 0

Just be a lot more exposed when you guys are around the house. Like with half your boobs showing. Or just jump him sometimes and fock him. Hump him hard. He'll be back for more quite soon.

2006-11-04 01:10:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Do you think a husband WOULD say if it was you? You're crazy. Look, he obviously could get interested if it was Carmen Electra or Maria Sharapova. He can't tell you if it's you.

2006-11-04 01:09:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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