2006-11-03 22:54:24 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's illegal... And I'm guessing you're just trying to create a stir...
2006-11-05 00:00:13 · answer #1 · answered by Fu Manchu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey! grow up partner! don't stop the world from moving or else you get ostracised. Thats your brother for crying out loud. Don't you have a conscience? There must be something terribly wrong with your emotional status. Don't think about tsuch things and get bbusy with school, work and your social clicks. If he is sane he will never forgive you for ******* him!! Would you like that? Keep him as a brother coz thats what he is-nothing more. You will have only urself to blame. Its called incest-uuuuuuuuuuuuhh!!
Terrible,yah?
2006-11-03 23:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a normal thing for teenagers (If you're not one, then you do need help...) but, like I said, it's normal. You shouldn't focus on it too much and DO NOT act on it, but it's perfectly natural.
Other than your father, a brother is a male who has been with you your whole life, knows you and loves you. You don't have to try to impress him and you know he'll always be there for you. But to act on such thoughts would be very wrong.
Try to find another guy to crush on, if you don't, you may get too used to the fact that you like your brother and might always find it difficult to move on or like someone else. You may also start getting jealous over your brothers girlfriends.
2006-11-03 22:59:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
that sounds terrible, maybe you dont fancy your brother, maybe he plays an important role in your life and is a rolemodel without you realising it.
the only love you have for your brother is normal the same way every sister loves her brother uless ofcourse your thinking of sex with him?
but apart from that you should reconsider your feelings and see if it may just be that he is a good influence to you and is a rolemodel?
2006-11-03 23:06:38 · answer #4 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need some help preferrably from a professional as soon as possible coz you cant go on like that or you should try to force yourself to go out with another guy to make sure you wont give a chance to those silly feeling you have for your brother.
2006-11-03 23:36:14 · answer #5 · answered by Ayati 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are u, is he your step brother, how old is he, this is a well hard question to answer, it is not ethical to fall in love with any of your siblings, it is a dangerous game to play, i advice you to try and look else where, and stop those feeling now before they get any worse for him.
2006-11-03 22:58:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey there,
Just to reassurre you that this is normal and many girls go through a stage of liking their brother because you will be admiring him for the things that you like in him. He is developing into a young man and this fascinates as well as attracts you to him because you are at a stage when you are discovering your own developmental changes.
He is your first point of contact with somone of the oppossitte sex who you live with and living in close proximity often arouses our curiosity of the oppossitte sex. Most girls however, do get past this phase naturally and it is a fleeting experience and usually ends of it's own accord. This applies to most girls, but not all girls like their brothers.
But often, if a child goes through a traumatic event such as losing a parent or an absent father or abuse in the home for example, this can make a young girl want to be even closer to their siblings and the friendship you have with your brother will make you want to bond with him in a way that will make you feel loved and chersihed. This is a very normal reaction when there has been anything traumatic in the family and something that is quite common indeed.
It is not that you really want anything to happen between you and your brother, but that you are afraid that something will when you look to him for the love and support you may not be getting from your parents. You have nothing to feel asamed or guilty about, so please don't worry that you are feeling these things towards him because you want to. There is usually a reason behind it and I suspect because you are either without a father or that you have experienced an emotional trauma of some kind that has led up to this situation now.
I really think that talking to someone who is an adult will help you put these feelings into perspective and help you to identify with where these feelings for him are coming from so that you will know what to about them. A teacher at the school or your mum is she is someone you can talk to?. If your mother does not talk to you or listens to you, then I would try hard to get her to and let her know that you have these feelings for your brother so that she can try and help you. If she is ignoring of you most of the time, then this might explain why you look to your brother for the affection and support your mother should be giving you.
It is often a fact that if parents are rejecting of their children and ignore them and are not there for them emotionally, then siblings often to turn their attentions to their brothers and sisters for the love and support they are not getting from their parents or when there is abuse in the home of any kind.
I don't know your situation honey, but I think that because your feelings are so strong for your brother, it is because there is something else happening in your family and perhaps because your mother is not being there for you and so you are only close to your brother and no other family member.
If you or your brother feel like doing anything with each other, you must tell someone and try not to be around him too much in case something does happen. Because what will happen is that if you or your brother were to act on your feelings towards each other, you will regret it for a long time to come and can usually destroy a brother and sister releationship in the years to come.
Please tell someone about this even though it feels wrong. It is only wrong to keep it a secret between you and your brother but not if you tell someone. No one is going to get mad at you or tell you off, because you haven't done anything wrong and you need someone to talk to about this so that you can make sense of it. You have been very honest with people on here and you are truly a brave girl.
Let someone at your school know like a counsellor or a teacher because if anything were to happen between you and your brother, it would cause so much damage that you don't want. If your brother knows that you feel this way and he also feels this way, then talking to someone outside of the family such as somone at your school will help you both to understand what is going on because this level of attraction you feel for one-another is usually a sign that something isn't right in your family life.
Be brave and let somone know.
2006-11-03 23:48:54 · answer #7 · answered by Shikira-trudi 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think your a little bit lonely aren't you. Judging by your previous 'questions' you are bored out of your mind and trying to either shock people or gross them out. How very sad! Get a life!
2006-11-04 04:53:48 · answer #8 · answered by trixi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that means your like crushing on your brother you need to go find anouther guy quick or go seek professional psyciatric help
2006-11-03 22:55:49 · answer #9 · answered by mojo09226 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definatly dont tell ANYONE....seee if mabe your just lonely...try to find someone who isent related to you....if you bring this up to someone you really wish that u wouldnt have ...unless its someone who dosen't know your family like a couselor or something .
2006-11-04 02:30:17 · answer #10 · answered by And kayla was like 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously!!You cant fancy your bro!You gotta get a boyfriend and that should take ya mind off him!Galak lolxx
2006-11-04 00:46:17 · answer #11 · answered by im_a_bad_ass_biatch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋