shall i get divorced?

Question

my husband is not showing interest in me ,no hugs ,no kiss and having sex 4 times each month.I always prepare good foods and most of the money I spend in my own ..I dont know what to do ,i just need some attention and sometimes i feel about having another relation with someone else to get what i really need and i am not given.

Answer 1

i think you should talk it over with him, be4 decide if u really want to divorce him

Answer 2

4 times a month is more than alot of people get. If it's not enough for you, go be single, but it was stupid of you to get married if that is so important to you. I'm not trying to sound cruel; I actually need sex way more than that too. Which is why I'll never get married because there's no guarantee, even with a healthy sex life, that it will always stay that way. You should have thought about that possibility before tying the knot. If you're not happy, get divorced; just don't make the same stupid mistake twice. You obviously need to be available whenever you need sexual or emotional attention, so keep yourself "available", even if it means passing up some seemingly good relationship offers.

Answer 3

Before you look else where for what you need,express to you husband how you feel and what you need he is not a mind reader. First make a list for yourself of what your needs are what your your willing to do to have them met and what the alternatives are. Maybe he is feeling the same, but men have a hard time getting in touch with there feelings. Life is to short to be unhappy. You are the only one responsible for your own happiness.

Answer 4

Look madam first of all you understand what is the meaning of divorce ok, its not a simple word that you can use any where in your life, I am really wondering how can you say so easly about divorce, even you didn't try to find what is your Husbands problem, madam this is really bad, look I am not blaming you but you have your own duties like ask your hus to what is the problem in your life (when he is in good mood) or you tell any of his good friends about (family friend) this and tell him to ask what is the reason OK. May be its simple problems ok. so you don't worry every thing gonna fine OK, don't think about divorce OK, god will help you, my prayers are with you OK don't be disappointed.......i am sure your husband will be back as a good man in your life and your life will become full of joy....... best of luck.

Answer 5

Well show some interest in him. Don't let them negative thoughts make it worst. Sometimes a good talk is all you need. When hes watching Television, just sit on his lap and start laughing. MAke it fun! Or just smack him on the butt as soon as he gets out of the shower. Lets get creative!

Answer 6

You are a very quite person, Is your husband a father to you? Hug him kiss him and demand sex as often as you want. Is he too old for you?

Answer 7

Know the feeling, just try and talk and see some sort of theropy before pulling the pin. Every relationship has its periods of ups and downs.

Hope all goes well for you.

Answer 8

You should probably need to talk it over.
He could be having some sort of problems of his own
that he hasnt told you about.

Get things straightened with him before you make a hasty
decision to finalize your marriage.

Answer 9

you need to talk to your husband- he probably isn't aware of how you are feeling- men are very dim when it comes to these things- don't go running off with someone else or even consider divorce until you have at least made it clear to your man how you are feeling.

Answer 10

This is a question you need to be asking your husband no one here can answer for your an his relationship ..perhaps he doesnt even realise....walk an talk

Answer 11

Stop doing anything for him...like cooking..cleaning his clothes, and when he notices you stopped that is when you talk to him and tell him what you are feeling...if he doesn't change, forget the affair, get rid of him...