In every house there is a fight that husband says he is grreat and wife says she controls the house. But I am confused
2006-11-03 19:34:29 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The best situation is where there is no boss. If things are amicably handled, the house is a beautiful place to be in. But there would be exchanges from time to time and there no body is going to run away or give in.
Sometimes this process becomes a "chemical reaction" and the equilibrium is reached. (Both move towards it). Thereafter all things calm down and the responsibility and authority domains get defined for the two.
You are confused (by looking at the fights between other couples). Every house is a separate entity and laws of equilibrium are defined by the couple itself and not by the laws of the neighbours.
2006-11-03 19:47:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't be confused my explanation for it all is that its true the man is the head of the house but the woman is the neck that turns the head. Of course he is the head of the house and woman are suppose to respect their husbands just as men are suppose to respect their wives. Its not a fight down because its a partnership and it works hand in hand. Anytime a man is saying that he makes all of the decisions for the house hold then I guarantee that the marriage is going down hill he doesn't recognize it yet or will be smashed in a while. No woman likes to leave her father's house and have a husband who wants to be her father. You can only have one father or mother. You now are partners in life forever and that's why the question always comes up, do you like the way that your partner behaves and can you live with all your partner's faults because everyone that you meet or see, even date they have a fault and its if you can live with it. Marriage is about compromise not master or mistress and follower. Anytime it isn't working that way the marriage is dis functional or artificial.
2006-11-03 20:00:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As boring as it sounds in a marriage these days there should not be a boss. Everything should be shared and equal. Each others opinions should be valued and compromises should be made. These are the rules that both my husband and I have set for our marriage and after 6 years of happiness together all is going well and I wouldn't change anything.
2006-11-03 21:18:58 · answer #3 · answered by mountain girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the husband or wife should be the boss because it takes both of them working together make a marriage work and house run without conflict.
2006-11-03 20:04:48 · answer #4 · answered by Susie B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no boss in this relationship.it is a complementing relationship.where if one is strog in one thing then the other is strong in some other things.say a man cannot cook patiently and tend to kids but a women has the patience to tend to the childs wants.women do delicate things like decorating the house,knitting,floral decoration in which most of the men are not good at.at the same time men prefer doing carpentry work,repairing,fitting electrical items etc.which women don't prefer to do.so marriage is complementing eachother and fulfilling eachother's negetives;not bossing on eachother.
2006-11-05 18:50:57 · answer #5 · answered by ask 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A strong relationship is a 50/50 relationship. There should be no boss in the house each person should let the other person be their own boss. As for house hold chores share them it is good for both parties.
2006-11-03 19:41:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the wife runs the house but a good wife always puts her husband as the head of the house always
2006-11-03 20:11:48 · answer #7 · answered by Derek H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in marriage two become one so both have equal responsibilities in the home...but in most cases...husband goes to work and provide for his family's needs while the wife is left at home to care for the children and to keep house...husband is the head of the family and the wife is the light of house...when it comes to decisions both should hear out each other's opinions before agreeing on something...husband should respect wife's decision and agree on it if he really thinks she is right coz whatever that is it will be for the betterment of their household.
2006-11-03 20:11:18 · answer #8 · answered by willow marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is not as simple as you think. I think for family life, your question is seem silly. No one becomes boss in family. Every person has responsibilities to make his/her family survive and runs well.
Usually, every couple must build commitment to takes each part and concerns about that when runs family life. And because of that every family is vary from each other. Even though some jokes say like you said in your question, but in reality it's not be happened.
So, what do you think?
2006-11-03 19:58:46 · answer #9 · answered by eddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the wife should control the husband.
2006-11-07 07:15:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋