2006-11-03 19:32:39 · 19 answers · asked by bliss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Both r good... Whether its love marriage or arrange marriage, its all depends on our understanding, caring attitude... Its only concept of our mind that v r saying love marriage is better than arrange marriage... But its all depend on us..In love marriage one knows thr partner before marriage but in arrange marriage that process has to be done... Whether its arrange or love marriage one shud be understanding and caring abt their partner...
2006-11-04 19:17:46 · answer #1 · answered by nishu 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love marriage. When you love the person you accept all her bad qualities, but for arranged marriage you just don't know the person and when you get to know the person you may not like her, you won't look at the person the same way as you would have looked for a person you love! love changes the whole thing!
2006-11-04 15:24:41 · answer #2 · answered by lovelydove_777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arranged marriage bond is better because the data required is obtained through reliable sources and then decided and so that bond keeps them generally together till their last breath. Love naturally follows when we think that person is mine.
In love marriage many facts are hidden by both not to lose the other .That comes out soon after marriage and they can not stay together. They dont have support from their parents / brothers and get no help especially at delivery times or when sick..........
2006-11-04 05:15:42 · answer #3 · answered by BHARANI 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love after arranged marriage or arranged marriage after love.
Both r best.
2006-11-04 03:53:34 · answer #4 · answered by jolly boy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Both are good. In love marraiges, the advantage is that you have already crossed one border (knowing each other and having feelings for each other). Whereas in "arranged marriage" this process has to be done and it takes time then.
The biggest flaw in "love marraige" seems to be that if it turns out to be "infatuation", things start to roll back and the advantage is lost. So one should be very clear while going in for a love marriage, it should be pure love and not infatuation between opposite sexes of the lovers.
2006-11-04 03:52:43 · answer #5 · answered by Freddie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dear friend
love marriage may be good but arrange marriage is not bad. everything depends on u. basically it depends on thinking.
in my case i want to say that parents know the child very well sometime beyond the imagination of the child. so they can select good spouse for their child.
but if u think that ur choice is right then say ok to love marriage...
2006-11-04 03:42:58 · answer #6 · answered by Raj Kumar 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
MARRIAGE IS MARRIAGE WHETHER IT IS LOVE OR ARRANGE. YOU WILL HAVE TO DO SAME THINGS AFTER MARRIAGE WITHOUT CONSIDERING LOVE OR ARRANGE,
2006-11-04 22:19:54 · answer #7 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love makes the world go around. Sometimes when the chips are down love can get you over the hump. I pick love any day of the week.
2006-11-04 03:37:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love. If you don't have love you don't have a marriage.
2006-11-04 07:55:52 · answer #9 · answered by Sexy-n-Hot 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i go for love...marriage isn't complete if there is no love...yes u may have financial security but if there is no love it is nothing...it will only go to waste...one will not be completely happy and satisfied."love can move mountains...it makes the world go round".
2006-11-04 04:17:19 · answer #10 · answered by willow marie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋