My husband always treats me like I am a child and always yells at me like I do not matter. It hurts so much. I do not treat him like this. What should I do? Sometimes it makes me feel worthless and I don't feel like living.
2006-11-03 19:24:16 · 16 answers · asked by sexysimonecarter 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
when someone makes u feel that bad u really shouldn't be with them. u don't need that. u deserve so much better.
2006-11-03 19:26:58 · answer #1 · answered by meme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out now. If he really loved and respected you, he wouldn't treat you like this. It's called mental abuse, and it will bring down your self esteem faster than anything. I've been through two relationships like this and I'm finally married to the most wonderful man in the world. It took me 6 yrs. to finally build my self esteem up to the point that I actually like everything about myself. It affected our relationship for the first few years we were married, but my husband was very loving and patient and I'm great now. Please don't let anyone treat you with anything other than kindness and love. You deserve so much more from a partner.
2006-11-03 19:30:05 · answer #2 · answered by sweet.pjs1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he seems very controlling. was he like this before ya'll got married? If not, then he could be stressed, or is going through something. maybe his father treated his mother this way and he thinks that he should treat you this way b/c that's what he was exposed to. bottom line, you need to tell him how you feel and how its affecting you. no one should feel worthless for we are all special and full of life. if he does not change then I suggest you try therapy. there's something causing him to act this way and someone not in the picture can help you figure it out. Good luck!!!!!!!!
2006-11-03 19:37:58 · answer #3 · answered by truth hurts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey youre worth the effort honey dont worry about him im sure he feels insecure about himself but still no woman should be treated like that theres no way in hell id ever treat my wife like that she means the world to me i think id die if i lost her now cos i just love and respect every moment of time i can spend with her when im not with her im thinking about her i could go on and on about how much i love my wife but id only be boring you so i say good luck in the future
2006-11-03 19:33:23 · answer #4 · answered by mustang_rws 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why some men do this to their wives. I think that they like to feel superior or something. It must make them feel like a man. Don't let him know that it gets to you, then he might stop. Don't let his stupid remarks get you down. You are better than he is. Leave him if he keeps doing this, because weather or not you believe this what he is doing is emotional abuse. No one deserves this.
2006-11-03 19:27:45 · answer #5 · answered by rach 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I got one just like it. Never treated me like that when we started dating, but now...so I started doing the same thing to him right in front of other people, not what I wanted to do, but I was at my witts end, I tried talking,arguing, ect... finially I just did it back. Well I have to say! he thinks twice now. Sometimes you have to be a ***** to get what you want. sunnydays
2006-11-03 19:29:22 · answer #6 · answered by sunnydays 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hes abusing you hun. Tell him how you feel before it gets physical. MAybe you two should gets some marriage couseling or go to CHURCH
2006-11-03 19:40:27 · answer #7 · answered by Winkytreats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not many good men are available, you just have to give yourself the opportunity to find one. Leave this jerk and find a man that appreciates you.
2006-11-04 02:56:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is controling guy,i would tell him to stop acting like you were a child,if that doesnt work divorce him.
2006-11-03 19:42:39 · answer #9 · answered by shepardman1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him....mental abuse is just as serious as physical....they can both scar you very deeply....tell him how you feel, if he does not change then its time to move on....he had his chance and blew it....
2006-11-03 19:35:26 · answer #10 · answered by Justcurious81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋