my husband of 2 years is real nasty towards me lately he says its all my fault,and playing lots of mind games with me is he cheating on me or does he just want me to kill myself?its makeing me insane
2006-11-03 19:15:32 · 27 answers · asked by isa7804 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I honestly don't have an answer for you because of these being the only details given. I can tell you to leave this relationship as it sounds miserable and he is emotionally abusing you.
HTH
2006-11-03 19:17:12 · answer #1 · answered by Star 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi Isa, I know how you feel. My X to be did me the same way.Always saying it's my fault and playing mind games all the time. He would say things and if i ask him why he said those things,he would say, i never said that to you.Your the one making everything up.It has hit me twice and i told him if he hits' be anymore i was going to have him arested.There were times he had that look in his eyes,you know the look of hate and wanting to hurt you badly. He maybe cheating on you,but he is playing mind games for sure.I hope you decide want you are going to do.Sweety it's not going to get any better,it's only going to get worse.Beleive me i know. A Friend.
Clowmy
2006-11-04 03:35:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you kill yourself........kill him. Not sure if he's cheating, some people are just mad at the world. Ask him what the hell is wrong with him and if he continues with the games, then leave for a while until he gets his crap together. Tell him you don't want to be around someone if you only seem to make him miserable.
2006-11-04 03:24:22 · answer #3 · answered by Italionaire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very common after 2 years you really start to find the real person you married ,but that alone doesnt mean he is cheating .It is best try to sit down together and talk about how you feel the marriage is going this requires honesty and a desire to make it work .
2006-11-04 03:23:40 · answer #4 · answered by john h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all no man in this world is worth ending your life for. He sounds like he is abusive why would you want to stick around with someone who is like that. Life is short we only live it once. If he is not coming home on time and not telling you where he has been or saying he is working late and things just do not add up then he is cheating on you. You might want to seek help professionally for the way you look at life. Like I said no man is worth taking your life for. You will end up hurting others around you while he just moves on with his life. Move on with your life and get help.
2006-11-04 13:51:10 · answer #5 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. He's cheating. He found someone else to make him happy, so he has that option to make you unhappy and not care.
Drop him before he really hurts you.
haha....
Smells like fresh soap? Those women are the biggest suckers! The ppl that need absolute proof are the biggest suckers of them all.
If you think he is, then it's 95% that he is babe.
Either way he's not for you!
and if you ask him if he's cheating, he'll get super defensive and make it all seem like it's your fault and treat you even worse!
2006-11-04 03:18:32 · answer #6 · answered by cruddypantz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't trust him get rid of him. It doesn't matter so much if he is cheating or not, the fact that he makes you feel bad about yourself is not a good thing. No man is worth that much misery. Mental abuse can be worse than physical abuse and is just as illegal. You can get help from your local abused woman's shelters or your local police dept. It is time to stop his craziness. He is the insane one not you so get out while you still can.
2006-11-04 03:26:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just don't treat the one you love nasty. I am not going to say that he is cheating but there is something wrong with you guys marriage. Do not kill yourself because your life is more Precious than that. If you kill yourself, then he will go to the next and live his life. If you feel that you are getting that crazy behind it, its time to let it go. Verbal abuse is just as harsh as physical abuse. Words can hurt and they are irretrievable.
2006-11-04 03:21:07 · answer #8 · answered by PRECIANA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't say for sure if he's cheating or not. Just ask him what he's feeling and if it's something you two can work on. If he can't give you an answer maybe it's time to seek counseling or divorce. Maybe he thinks by treating you bad, you will leave him, then it wouldn't be on his conscience about him leaving you. No one is worth killing yourself over, that's for sure. Good luck.
2006-11-04 03:20:26 · answer #9 · answered by sweet.pjs1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband is nasty towards you doesnt always mean cheating. I think more then this... he attitude towards you needs serious change. Even if he is ****ing someone else.. that is the small part. He doesnt respect you. You need to kick his *** to the kirb and get your **** in order... then he will respect you again. If not.. what are you losing anyhow????? Think about it!
2006-11-04 03:23:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anna Q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is whether or not he's cheating really all that important? i'm thinking the fact that he's being a jerk, and that's undoubted cause you KNOW that part's true, is what you really need to be worrying about. are you going to be able to sit down and have a heart to heart w/ him? or is he past that point? maybe u need to seek relationship therapy, or maybe you need to ask yourself whether or not u deserve a life like this? (by the way, i'll guarantee ya, u don't. u deserve love and respect and if he's not giving it to ya then why the heck are u staying?!?!?)
2006-11-04 03:20:25 · answer #11 · answered by meme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋