my boyfriend keeps suggesting that one day i will be pregnant...?

Question

We are seriously involved and always use protection but he tell's me all the time that i am going to end up pregnant. Now, I'm not stupid, o.k. I get that he probablly want's children and I better watch it, but is he testing me???

Answer 1

He may be testing the water to see how you feel, or he may poke a hole in the condom, I have heard of that as well.

Answer 2

If he was that serious, he'd be giving you a ring instead of dreams. Keep using the condom until you say "I do." You're doing a very smart thing by consistently using protection. There are way too many single moms of children - who listened to their boyfriend's promises, and not their own common sense.

Answer 3

You need to forget whether or not he is testing you because this is not a game. You need to be upfront with him and have a serious conversation with him about it. If you think he may try to get you pregnant without you knowing then you need to protect yourself and get birthcontrol. But honestly if you have to do something like that then he probably isn't some you should be with let alone have a child with.

Answer 4

I am not sure if he is testing you but he doesn't sound too trustworthy. If I were you I would buy my own condoms so he couldn't poke a hole into one.

Answer 5

You should be asking your boyfriend exactly what he means and what he's thinking and make sure you're okay with whatever that is or stop sleeping with him if you don't trust him.

Answer 6

Men are tricky so you might want to just straight up ask him what he really wants to happen?

Answer 7

Ask your self, In what way do you think he is testing you?
There lies your answer.

Answer 8

Tell him to get a vasectomy