2006-11-03 18:58:18 · 5 answers · asked by sunnysargam 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Gee, it must be difficult for you to deal with this, many couldn't. Everyone thinks that being homosexual is simple black and white by definition. Same gender sex. But they don't understand that it can be more complicated.
Homosexuals are NOT against nature...many creatures of the animal kingdom pair up same gender. So that proves it's not perverted as some prudes claim.
But there are two sides to this coin....
There are true male male / female female attractions that equal homosexual types - they prefer the same sex, yet they also enjoy being their gender be it male or female.
Then there are transexuals - those that are physically male/female - but they are spiritually or essense wise, the opposite gender. They don't like being physically the opposite of "who" they are inside. They are men trapped inside of female bodies and hate being female. They tend to dress like guys and act like guys. It's who they are inside. They like females, not because they "are" female, but males. It's just that they are in a female body. Same thing for the guys, they are really females...and like males because of who they are not what body they are in.
This can be very confusing for this type of person, cause they are hetero yet due to the physical form are doomed homosexual. Many of this type opt for the surgery that can make them as physically like their inner energy as possible.
Some people become violent or angry if they find out the female they go out with was once a male. They claim fraud. How? This person was born physically male, yet was inside female. She only changed the outside to match her true self. She's hetro...and due to surgery able to be so freely. There persons are not true homosexuals.
Those of both genders have it even harder. If a child is born with both genitalia sometimes the parents pick one - but what if it's the wrong one...? Some decide to wait til later to make the choice...it's difficult, emotional and hard for everyone,
People need to just get over what other people do in private. If they aren't "doing it" in the streets - what's the problem?
If it doesn't effect their work or interfer with things who cares?
We need to focus on the real issues, and stop making a big fuss over nothing.
What is wrong with homosexuality? Nothing! It also doesn't contribute to the population problem and they make great parents. Trust me, I know several that are great folks and their kids are a toss up. Some are hetero and some are homosexual. Difference is, their folks are ok with whatever makes them happy.
Isn't that the way it should be?
2006-11-04 07:51:39 · answer #1 · answered by Kittara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk with others you can confide in to see where you really are in all of these deep down feelings. ask around and see who can guide you in your thoughts too.
2006-11-05 09:37:27 · answer #2 · answered by cadaholic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are either
transgender
transvestite
or a transsexual
talk to a doctor about your feelings and do something about it
it is possible to change there are ways to do it
good luck
2006-11-04 07:17:36 · answer #3 · answered by Zara3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats a secret?? your fruedian slip is showing.
2006-11-04 02:59:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
and the question is??? what you have is called gender dysphoria.
2006-11-04 09:40:54 · answer #5 · answered by newmichelle1959 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋