to search for something new why change what you have.
a good strong working man.
a 3 person family with a talented beautiful boy.
education, learning, college, friends.
an enourmously sexy shoe collection.
a private serene ohio home by a lake.
the trusted privacy to go out until 3 am.
a genetically blessed sexy man to come home to who would not abuse you.
travels from nyc to san francisco to south america.
envied at every public place.
cool, suportive parents and in laws.
this and these are not things i want to hold against you. this and these are things you are currently holding in your heart. why do you want to hold mine broken.
.. i do think i will move out soon if she feels that would be best. although we can't afford it $, i have places i can go. the problem is that i have not been on vacation in over a year, winter is here, i put myself in the hospital after the talk with nine shots of tequilla. it's just making me sick.
2006-11-03 18:56:55 · 15 answers · asked by matthew m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She obviously didn't know in the beginning what she wanted. Except, perhaps, some unpredictablity in her life. To live on a wing and a prayer.
If so, this certainly is not your fault, but it would still devestate you. If I'm right, it's better you move on, but not meekly. Stand up for yourself and I wish you well in the future. Good luck.
2006-11-03 19:05:03 · answer #1 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is this the letter or reasons why you should stay together?What does a vacation have to do with it? Why ya drinking Tequilla and putting yourself in the hospital? I don't see anything about Love on your list. I'm missing it somewhere. Sorrry
2006-11-03 19:09:45 · answer #2 · answered by Winkytreats 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stpo writing her letters. Get out a photo album and ask her to look at it with you. Talk about your past. Talk about the good. Hold her hand and ask her what can you do to show her your love and care. Don't brag about what you are materially giving her. Who cares about shoes, homes, travel, wealth? That is NOT love or a relationship. She needs to know you love her and not just a show for the world. No wonder she wants to leave you. Your priorities are wrong.
2006-11-03 19:05:05 · answer #3 · answered by Roger S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Matt, Sorry about this whole thing. Your wife has had enough and whats out of your life. I can relate to this. I to 1 year ago had enough yelling,abuse,controlling,lieing and untrusting.I feel alot better and feel like a stone has be lifted from my chest.It sounds like your wife feels something like this. I'm not trying to be mean,but things like this happen.A person shouldn't be made to stay with a person,if i don't want to anymore.
Clowmy
Clowmy
2006-11-03 19:23:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You may find out that the "trusted" 3am outings are the cause of this. You cannot trust a woman to make the right decisions. She is blinded by a man, woman, new love of some sort so the rest doesn't matter to her. Live and learn.
2006-11-03 19:00:58 · answer #5 · answered by m-t-nest 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why do you so depressed. Just talk with her and find what the problems are. Tell that you still love her. If then she really want to separates from you, let her live separately. May be she want to be alone for awhile. If she love you, she will come back to you.
Let you busy with your son, your work and your hobbies. Don't be easy to surrender. And don't drink too much, you still have son to be loved. Be happy with him. OK.
2006-11-03 19:18:48 · answer #6 · answered by eddy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she is in search of something new, I hope you are going to keep your beautiful son. Focus on yourself and your child and let her go. If she has all of these things and cannot figure out where she needs to be. Then she should be the one with questions.
Good Luck!
T.A.
2006-11-03 19:08:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nine shots of tequila just gets me started
2006-11-03 18:59:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all stop being egotistical you're nt being apologetic you're just throwing in her face how good you are... tell her why you love her what she means to you, that you cant live without her pour your heart out that is the only way to get her back!
2006-11-03 19:01:43 · answer #9 · answered by sadgreeneyes3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be the 9 shots is the answer to your question
2006-11-03 19:02:35 · answer #10 · answered by SIMRAN 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋