how do i get over her when i see her everyday and her 'new friends' at school? i have all this materialistic stuff put in a shoe box...how do i stop being sad abt loosing a friend? i've lost soo much this month? How do i cope when she was the one that was always there for me when i needed her and now she's not?
2006-11-03 18:52:18 · 14 answers · asked by Chanel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
no we're donzo...no way in hell is she ever gna b friends with me again. she made me cry several times.
2006-11-03 18:58:30 · update #1
i've apoligized many times and even tried to change my personality for her cuz i thought that would make things better but it didn't.
2006-11-03 18:59:52 · update #2
In life we make friends and we lose them, from death, they move (Or you Move), get married, Argument, fights,so forth and so...this is one of thing you will have to get use to,, the best way to deal with it is to take it one day at a time. one day you will find a true friend, don't worry about it.
2006-11-03 22:08:10 · answer #1 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are pretty young .... and I do not know that it will help but everything happens for a reason and maybe she just needs her space. As you get older you meet all kinds of people some that will prove to be great .I have had my Best friend since the fourth grade and in the year I have found two more. Try finding common ground with the new friends she has made.... oh and do not ever throw any kind of memorabilia away because that is something you always want to look back on as you grow
2006-11-04 03:06:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry as long as nothing to bad happened such as stealing your man or such, she'll be back. I have got a best friend of almost 20 years (man how time flies) we've had some pretty bad fights before even come face to face screaming at each other, but....as a few days went by we calmed down and couldn't stand being away from each other, we would end up crying , laughing, and hugging each other. Even our daughters thought we would be friends again. The word Best Friend can go along way's. 20 years now , and she lives just down the road. Don't loose a good friend over something you both can laugh over someday, or just something that you can easily work out. Trust Me on that. Good Luck all will be well. sunnydays
2006-11-04 03:00:47 · answer #3 · answered by sunnydays 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like she's been u'r best buddy, yea. She must be feeling the same way u r feeling abt her. So, instead of waiting for her 2 come & talk 2 u, it would be much better if u go try talk 2 her. She might b feeling guilty abt da fight. So go on & make u'r move. There's nothing better than talking things over especially after a fight. She'd be happy, too. I know how it is 2 break up with u'r best buddy. Anyway, good luck : )
2006-11-04 02:57:41 · answer #4 · answered by Sk8erGurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to ruin your personality just for someone who is rude to you. It's just a waste of time. If you feel that bad about it though, you need to talk to a trusted adult or talk to her yourself. I hope you are able to cope with this. Try joining a after-school club/activity. I know that's the usual stuff that people would tell you but it really helps.
2006-11-04 03:18:47 · answer #5 · answered by i_latortue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go to her and say that u r sorry for everything and if she is really a good friend of urs then she will surely agree for the patch-up and if she say no, then stop crying for her, u've already done wat u could. But i'm sure that she too is very upset on this thing and will surely be ur friend again. So, good luck dear. :o)
2006-11-04 06:59:48 · answer #6 · answered by Simba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't just hide away and cope...maybe u want her to say sorry...u can regain your friendship by just saying sorry, can we be friends. chances are that she'll forgive u and you'll be friends again! i have got into a huge fight with my friend but i just took a chance and said sorry...the word is hard to say but lets face it ...we say it ...we gain a lost friendship.....TAKE A CHANCE
2006-11-04 02:57:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Writing letters always work for me. I can explain things better in writing, I don't get too emotional and I can read them over and over to correct wordings to avoid miscommunications.
My friends always come to me and say, 'thanks for the letter,'
2006-11-04 03:04:20 · answer #8 · answered by fortuna0820 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you should let things cool off and then go and talk to her exsplain you have been going through alot if she is truly your friend she will understand! good luck...
2006-11-04 02:55:26 · answer #9 · answered by BLUEEYES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and talk with her...you might still have a way to save your friendship....
2006-11-04 02:54:18 · answer #10 · answered by Tru-Gem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋