I was in love with this guy 4 about 2 years but we broke up, its been 1year and 1/2 since I've seen him. He's been calling lately but he calls private. I thought I got over him but ever since he's been calling I constantly think of him. He was my 1st love but he treated my like crap, and would disappeared on me. I thought I moved on but now I'm not sure. What should I do??
2006-11-03 18:48:50 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You never forget your first true love. I hope you find peace in your heart, I know I have been searching for peace for a very long time.
2006-11-03 18:50:21 · answer #1 · answered by luscious_tori 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can give you the perspective of the guy. I had broken up, badly, with my first true love. My family convinced me I was too young (18), he was not good enough, lots of other crap so I dropped him and moved on. A year or so later I wanted him back and he had moved on. Now, 15 years later, we are both married to others with children and we accidentally found each other again. I am still in love with him, and I can't believe it because its been so long but this is the situation I find myself in. I'm sorry for how I treated him so long ago and I wish I could have had another chance to make it up to him because who knows, maybe we would be together today. People change and realize they made mistakes. I'm not saying jump into a bad situation. I'm saying listen to him, who knows? If you see red flags run away quickly. But if you think he is the one for you, what will a few phone calls hurt?
2006-11-04 06:31:06 · answer #2 · answered by I'm Trying 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first love is always special, and triggers special feelings. Don't confuse this for common sense. If he treated you badly before, fact is he could do it again. Not something I would enter into. You don't want those special feelings ruined. My first love took over 2 years to really get over. I was engaged to someone else and ran into him....and still feelings were there. It was confusing for a little while, until I understood that what I was feeling was special memories of a special time, without remembering the bad. Take those memories and move on.
2006-11-03 18:52:43 · answer #3 · answered by chelles_insanity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-28 12:23:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he treated you like crap then he doesn't deserve you...You can and will find someone better when the time is right! everything happens for a reason!! my 2 year relationship recently ended to, and NO CONTACT with that person reallllly helps, so try to not answer his calls and he will eventually get the point that you don't want to talk to him!! i know its hard, but its the right thing to do!!good luck to you
2006-11-03 18:52:19 · answer #5 · answered by DefLeppardxXx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, im going through the same thing. almost same situation. at first when we first started talknig we were mad at each other then we started to bring up the past (good times) laughed, then he told me that he loved me and couldnt be with out me... i didnt know what to do either, so pretty much i just let him have it, then cried and told him the how i felt. i dont know if that helps. but hopefully it does. just be honest and tell him.
2006-11-03 18:56:08 · answer #6 · answered by *inFamOUs* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick to your decision.Once if that person can behave bad he can do it again and you would be broken bad again.So develop a different hobby, go and talk to people and stop thinking about him in that sense. You can be friends platonically but if u dont want to get hurt again...... you know what to do.
2006-11-03 19:09:47 · answer #7 · answered by SIMRAN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i bet you can find someone to treat you better! so right now thats what he wants for you to just fall for him once agein. dont fall for it!
2006-11-03 19:48:22 · answer #8 · answered by bria<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get on with your live let go of the past
2006-11-03 18:51:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can revive if you r not with someone else. do 't hurt second if you had find
2006-11-03 18:53:02 · answer #10 · answered by sk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋