What really turns on women?

Question

Men who wear rolex watches. Men who have money but gives them rotten treatment. Given beautiful flowers. etc

Answer 1

No.....all those things you mentioned mean nothing they are just materialistic....what turns me on is a man with substance, and scruples, a man with high intelligence, and a man who has the sweetest personality, who makes me laugh, a man who can hold his own place in the world, and a man who is extremely good looking, and if he has the watch, money, the beautiful flowers then these are just bonuses, or the icing on the cake.

Answer 2

That is a very personal choice. Me personally a man with a Rolex means very little, a man with a great deal of money not really important. A man who gives beautiful flowers would rank up there fairly high. What would matter to me is. A man with a decent character, who loves and respects women, has a work ethics and believes in working for a living. Has personal hygiene skills. smells good. And has the capability of having a conversation and listening. I can make my own money! Money and material items do not make a man, or a woman. A man who has a spiritual foundation to base their life upon is a very important quality for me. God bless

Answer 3

Men who listen to your words, offer to help you around the house even though they don't have to, who want to take care of you even though they know you are independent minded, who like to kiss you often and give you that look that says "I want you and am crazy about you" all of the time. Men who are there for everything and don't give lame excuses for why they can't support your moves or be happy for your successes. Oh, yeah, and having a good hard one for enjoyment doesn't hurt either. As a matter of fact, I've discovered that almost anything is bearable if what's going down in the bedroom is good. Believe me, I was married to a two minute man who only cared about himself. Now, I've got a guy I described and, well, let's just say this about the bedroom--OH MY GOD!!

Answer 4

There's are as many different applicable stimuli as there are women. What works for one may not work for another. I've known women (in the biblical sense) that were turned on by raunchy talk that would send some of the others I've met running for the door in disgust.

I don't think money is really one of them. Most women that are attracted to it are really are not so much turned on by it as they are making a quite mercenary determination that comfort, security and having loads of leisure time are more important than love.

But I suppose there are some "sorta" constants. Showing respect for her; being considerate but not fawning; being strong (emotionally and physically) while not being afraid to acknowledge your vulnerabilities; paying attention to what she needs and wants, and if neccessary, adjusting your behavior to accomodate her (just don't adjust it too much - most women don't like pushovers, no matter how much they may appear to); being protective but not possessive; and looking at her and listening to her and behaving and maybe actually feeling that when you are alone with her, she is the only other person in the world.

And, of course, being able to make her laugh. It's a tough, stressful world. Don't take it or yourself too seriously.

When things get around to the physical stuff, it's just a matter of taking your time, "feeling" your way around until you find out what she likes, and doing it. Hell, ask if you have to. Just don't go charging in like a bull from the gate and do whatever worked on the last one.

anyway

My second wife, who was 11 years younger than me, smart as a whip, funny and truly beautiful, said she fell in love with me initially because of the way I looked at her. The eyes can have a very powerful impact, especially when the emotions they convey are genuine.

But once the initial infatuation wears off, one has to work VERY hard to keep being the person the other person fell in love with. That's where me and a lot of other men go wrong. Most of us are born with the instincts we need to seduce, even win over a woman, but once we have them (women), we tend to take them for granted, and stop putting as much effort into the relationship as we should. What I did, anyway. Once you get to thinking that looking after them financially and giving them good sex is enough, and maybe even more important than the intangibles I just listed, you are well on your way to blowing it.

Why I lost her. And by the time a woman lets you know you are blowing it, the damage is often already irreparable. Was that way in my case

Still pretty good at getting women. Just don't much feel like it since she left.

If and when I do, I can't see myself making those mistakes again. Ain't worth it.

Answer 5

I agree with that daysleeper chick. But first impressions before going into all the other stuff, the way a man smells, white shirt with the sleeves rolled up and being able to talk with their eye's.....that small glance that says a thousand words..............

My god i miss men..........2 1/2 years of separation and personal growth it's time for a new man.......If only i could find the one i described!

Answer 6

I like men who are intelligent,kind,polite,and funny.

Answer 7

Men who listen, make you laugh, and show their support.

Answer 8

As a male, I can say that women find confidence sexy.

Really.

Answer 9

ok am a lesbian and the thing that turns me on women is them being mature

Answer 10

Before you marry them anything
after your marry them your best friend.