How should I react?

Question

I found out a few weeks ago that My friend's friend said "I was cute" and that she was coming to my college to visit from Vermont to RI... and to my surprise we flirted and she slept in my bed and made out most of the night...(we didn't have sex)..and she said she was going to make her ex-boyfriend jealous(she's bi)... I don't know if she was using me or really interested in me...what do you think?

She kept on saying that she didnt want to leave and thatn she wants me to visit and such.. is that just her saying that or did she mean it? I think she meant it, but the whole making her ex jealous thing is getting to me... i mean, im single and like other girls, and seeing other girls, but i dont like the feeling of being used, and im not using her either...i dunno... Help?

Answer 1

My advice, dont mess with a bisexual girl. If she wants to make her boyfriend jealous then she is trouble. You need to be with someone that is about you only. Dont settle

Answer 2

Listen to what people tell you about themselves! If she told you she wanted to make her ex jealous, then I would steer clear regardless of her other motivations. Someone who is overtly into playing games - like trying consciously to make someone else jealous - is going to play games with you, too, if you get involved. If you just want to mess around with her, go ahead and do it, but getting emotionally involved with a person like this is trouble - big trouble. I'd steer clear unless you can really, REALLY, stay emotionally uninvolved, something I was never able to do with anyone I was physically intimate with. Good luck!

Answer 3

You should have asked her right away why she wants to make someone jealous. Jeaousy is not a good thing; especially if someone does something just to make them jealous. Let her go. She's inconsiderate.