i have this friend who moved from another state in 6th grade && now we are in 7th grade && best friends she loves her ex that she dated in 5th grade but he loves another girl!my friend always seems sad even though she says she is fine i dont think she is so i need some advice to help CHEER her ^!
2006-11-03 16:28:38 · 13 answers · asked by Chains 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
blablablablabla who gives a ****
2006-11-03 16:30:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for her, because these things take time to heal. We girls love hard and with our whole hearts and romantic wounds of lost loves tend to stick with us a while, so just be there for her. Try doing fun stuff that make her laugh and have fun, and things that will just take her mind off of the present situation. Believe me over time she will move on, you guys are young and will have plenty more experience in this subject the longer you live. She is just lucky to have a friend that cares so much about her.
2006-11-04 00:34:29 · answer #2 · answered by lvld12345 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a talk with her and find out what she likes to do to have fun where she likes to go what type of things does she like to do then try to help her out so she can do that stuff if it is realistic. Also go to social places with her like dances or parties and help her meet someone that might have the same interests or is cute enough for her to start to forget about that LOSER. By they way keep letting her know how much of *** wipe that guy was and keep reminding her she deserves way better than that guy could give her tell her she is a princess turning into a Queen and she needs to start loving herself, because no one can love you like you can love your self. Good Luck Sweet Heart!
2006-11-04 02:41:26 · answer #3 · answered by Nessa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get her mind off boys. You guys are only in middle school..you shouldn't even be having boyfriends or whatever. Believe me, it'll all blow off. Elementary/middle school drama you'll find out later is so retarded and a waste of time. As is high school drama but I'm a little stuck in that at the moment xD
2006-11-04 00:39:16 · answer #4 · answered by ciaopride 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, u could try having her go out with another guy. Or make her see that there is no use being sad all the time. She is just beating herself up. Me, I stand up for my ego, lol. If the guy that was my ex goes out wih someone else, then I'll go out with someone else, make him jealous and make him feel that he is so stupid to have dumped us. But if he asks to go back with you, don't. It will lead to no good. He doesn't really love her.
2006-11-04 00:35:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow 5th 6th and 7th grade stuff. why dont you girls just relax and have fun at that age when nothing you do really matters and you have no responsiblities. stop worring yourself over nothing. if you can understand what i mean than you should try to explain that to her. it doesnt matter at her age.
2006-11-04 00:31:53 · answer #6 · answered by RichUnclePennybags 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So very young. Try to get her involve in some positive activities. Turn her mind to better things.
2006-11-04 00:31:07 · answer #7 · answered by beautiful_heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does be there for your friend cheer her up by asking all your friend to sing her a song in front i bet she will laugh hard hope this help
2006-11-04 00:38:17 · answer #8 · answered by mike2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont you think that you guys are too young for this stuff?? Why dont you just have fun and enjoy life!!
2006-11-04 00:39:41 · answer #9 · answered by blue_angle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yall some young kids, love doesnt exist except for love for objects
2006-11-04 00:31:29 · answer #10 · answered by ceesteris 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a girly night in to take her mind of things do each other hair nails, watch movies nd stuff ur face wiv snacks remind her wat a great friend she is nd ur there 4 her
2006-11-04 00:31:19 · answer #11 · answered by hunni_b21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋