Ok I like this guy, and I think he likes me because he kinda flirts wit me(I think) and he is in all of my classes so we talk a lot and he is just really nice, but there is one problem.......He has a girlfriend. They have been going out for 2 years exept for a couple weeks ago when they got in a fight and broke up for a couple hours and got back together.
He always smiles at me and talks to me and we get along really well.
My friend said it was really oviouse that I liked him and then her friend found out and supposidly yelled it in the locker room in front of his g/f. and I think she is kinda mad at me.
So my question is should I back off and stop flirting wit him and talking to him as much or what?, because I don't want to ruin his relationship or have his g/f hate me(in my school if one girl hates u, they can get other ppl to go along wit them and make ur life a living nightmare).
2006-11-03 16:05:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I know I shouldn't flirt with him and I am not that much but he is.
2006-11-03 16:13:13 · update #1
He's in ALL of your classes? You lucky dog. I don't think you should flirt with him if he has a girlfriend. Just try to be his really good friend. And by really good friend I don't mean the 'kiss and never tell' type, I mean maybe just be there for him to talk to.
2006-11-03 16:13:07 · answer #1 · answered by K 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you just concentrate on your schooling for now. If its a long term relationship and they are really ready to see other people then they wouldn't be breaking up for a couple of hours. Talk to him as a friend and NO FLIRTING!!! He is not single. And also its about that time that you stop telling your girlfriend with the big MOUTH your business.
2006-11-03 16:13:25 · answer #2 · answered by Niinnaa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would back off on the flirting without looking like you're totally turned off (you don't want him to think you don't like him at all). Guys rarely turn out to be worth a bunch of chicks hating you. If you kept flirting with him and he broke up with his girlfriend for you, then you are teaching him to then dump you when the next hot girl smiles at him. He's probably getting restless being in a relationship for so long during his prime dating years, but he needs to figure out if he wants to stay with her or not before flirting with you.
2006-11-03 16:14:55 · answer #3 · answered by e_gladman@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
STOP the flirting, it's unacceptable to make a move on someone that's already in a relationship. Just try and imagine how you'd feel if someone were flirting with your boyfriend. It'd probably make you mad and maybe hurt your feelings. And remember, "what goes around comes around"
2006-11-03 16:20:09 · answer #4 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing wrong with being friends, just don't left yourself take it past there with the what if's... He seems to be happy in his relationship and if you can't just think if him as a friend keep your distance. Try telling his gf that your not interested in him that way. Your not going to ruin the relationship only one of them can end it.
2006-11-03 16:12:34 · answer #5 · answered by Sharpie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what u should do is u can flirt and still talk 2 him but the best thing 2 do is to become friends with his g/f that way if your friends with her she wont think you will do any thing and you should try not 2 do anything with him or 2 him that she wont like
2006-11-04 01:50:10 · answer #6 · answered by kierra w 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that you are not comfortable getting in the middle of him and his girl, and it seems that is what is happening if you keep talking to him all the time (And add 'not that I MIND talking with you, but it's obviously messing with your relationship with so and so") He'll make the decision of either persuing you or staying with so and so.
2006-11-03 16:43:49 · answer #7 · answered by misskenjr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this was your man to start with would you want her flirting with him. Like it even matters, what are the odds of this being the man you'll end up with? Probably slim to none. Move on and leave him alone if he wanted to be with you he probably would be.
2006-11-03 16:16:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i don't think that you should flirt with him and get in a big mess with the other girl but if he was single i would go out with him.
2006-11-03 16:10:54 · answer #9 · answered by babygirl0202 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
WTF - u can talk 2 him - flirting is talkin soo...
i guess u can
if ur popular - no1 will go against u - if ur tought - no1 will go against u
a couple days ago (yesterday) i kicked a kid, that likes me, in the balls, cuz he waz annoyin me - so, ppl saw dat and so no1 will mess wit me, except the kid dat likes me cuz hes sorta mi freind
2006-11-04 07:22:26 · answer #10 · answered by 12 yr old boi crazzi gurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋