Is this wrong?

Question

My older brother is gone for 30 days. He always hits me, calls me very rude names. (Stupid,Beaver teeth, Bit*h.) All the bruises I have are from him. I never want to be left alone with him. My Mom drags me along with her so I don't feel scared.

I'm happy that he is gone. I don't even miss him. Is this wrong?

Answer 1

Siblings usually call each other names. Although some do hit each other but usually parents corrects that...even if they did try to correct it and they still hit you then it's possible he could have some kind of problem....and if you don't miss him I think it's ok. I mean he like abused you who would miss someone who does that stuff?.....but I'm sure he loves you even though he hurts you. Try talking to him about what he does to you. Let him know how he makes you feel.

Answer 2

It is not wrong at all. It is even very very very right ! You do not need a mushroom on your life.
But ... But ... Use these 30 days to prepare a retaliation strategy.
He should feel a difference when he comes back. Get help and support about how to crush down his bad instincts . He should wake up and understand that you are not his thing. Fight the moron in him.

Answer 3

No its not wrong. No one has the right to hit you. Is he gone because of that? If not talk to your mom and convince her that whatever he is gone for that she needs to talk to whoever is in charge and he needs to get more help to stop abusing you. He should not be allowed back in the house unless he has received and is cooperating with counseling. Make your voice heard. Don't give up.

Answer 4

Honey, this is not normal, You need to have him put into councelling or something. He needs to realize that he cannot get away with beating you like this. Maybe you should call your local police station and they can suggest something for him, like anger management classes.

My brothers and I never fight. They both body build and could definantly over power me. But they wouldnt do such a thing. Your brother is mentally ill and needs help. No one deserves to be abused.

Answer 5

No its not. You need to get some help from the police. This is abuse and it is against the law. Nobody has the right to put there hands on you. You also should talk to your mother about all he does. If she does nothing than go to another family member. This is very wrong.!!!!

Answer 6

All siblings fight with each other. You need to talk to your mom about it because he shouldn't be hitting you. Do you hit him or aggravate him in any way? Don't say no until you think about it.

Believe it or not, some day you will love each other and even enjoy spending time together.

Answer 7

NO. think of this, if you had a puppy and you hit it and abused it the way ur brother did. do you think if you left the puppy would miss you?

Answer 8

Your brother is abusing you, and the farther away he is from you, the better. You need to report this to your parents; if they don't listen, find a grown-up who will. You're not the one who's wrong--he is.

Answer 9

No, it is not wrong...
What is your brother's problem?
Sometimes siblings call each other names, but he should not be hitting you!
(Your mom should not be allowing him to do that to you.)
Something needs to change in your house ASAP...
ENJOY YOUR VACATION FROM YOUR BROTHER!

Answer 10

No one has the right to be hit...from anybody, mom, dad, sister , brother , boyfriend........Don't let him keep doing it......What does the mom do.....If she doesn't do anything , call the police or go To neighbor to call!!!!!! the police....NO ONE has the right to Hit YOU!!!!!! No ONE!!!!