Hey everyone!
I have this guy friend who used to flirt with me constantly. But has expressed literally no interest in me as far as a relationship goes. He lives kinda of far away, but im going to visit a friend of mine whom lives right by him , over this winter.
He has told me for quite some time now that he has something to say to me that he prefers to say in person, but won't give me the slightest hint as to what it is.
I don't think it's something bad, but it does baffle me a bit since he doesn't seem very interested in me. What could it be that one can't say online, or would prefer not to, but rather say in person? It's kind of driving me nuts to know.
*sigh*
Any help would be great. thanks!
2006-11-03 15:36:50 · 5 answers · asked by Snuggles 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Have you actually met this guy? Or is he just an online friend? If it happens to be the second, watch out. He could just be trying to get you over to his place... and he might be a 40 year old man that doesn't have good intentions in mind. Be careful.
2006-11-03 15:40:18 · answer #1 · answered by visionssofaraway 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be anything. What I have learned over the years is that girls and guys think differently and have totally different points of view. You might think he's flirting or trying to come on to you or something of that sort, and he could be thinking totally something different. There's really no way for you to figure out what he wants to tell you until he actually tells you. Don't get your hopes up ahead of time. i would really hate for you to be disappointed if it turns out to be not what you expected.
Good Luck.
2006-11-03 23:50:46 · answer #2 · answered by Galinka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if you don't know what he's going to say how can we possibly know? You know him, we don't.
Maybe he's going to tell you that he likes you, really likes you. But don't get your hopes up. Not trying to be mean, just don't want to see you get hurt.
Try telling him you may not be able to go visit & that he needs to go ahead & tell you because you might not get to see him in person & see if he will tell you.
Good luck.
2006-11-03 23:44:06 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's something he doesn't want written, as there would be proof he said it. I found out a long time ago if you don't want someone to know you said something...NEVER write it down.
2006-11-03 23:41:10 · answer #4 · answered by Corona 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its gonna be romantic when he tells you....or really unnecessary redundant or unworthy
2006-11-03 23:43:07 · answer #5 · answered by ceesteris 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋