2006-11-03 15:34:47 · 26 answers · asked by sznnw 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Divorce his @ss and take him for half of what he's worth.
2006-11-03 16:16:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would concentrate on all the other things I gave up when I married him.
Such as hobbies (that I didn't have time for), concentrate on my career or kids.
I wouldn't care whether he had an affair or not. It's his loss..and if he wants a divorce I would be ready because by that time..I would be successful career wise. I don't need a piece of **** to bring me down.
If he was a real man...he wouldn't even dare to hurt you that way.
2006-11-03 23:52:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change the locks on the doors???? Get proof of his infidelity, then take his cheating butt to court and take him for all he's worth. Most importantly- protect YOUR health. He's risking giving you an STD. I wouldn't just sit back and hope it blows over. He has no respect for you or your wedding vows- and you deserve respect. I don't think it's possible to fix a marriage once someone has cheated- if you stay, who's to say he won't do it again? After all, if he got away w/ it once, why wouldn't you turn the other way the next time??
2006-11-03 23:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by JustMyOpinion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in this situation in the past and it is the most difficult. Some people say just leave him alone. But sometimes its just not that simple. If you do decide to stay that means you forgave the situation so leave it where it lays. That is the stickler because your mind will always replay the moment. You have to truly honest with yourself that you have forgiven this person you can't keep thinking or bringing up the past. Which happened to me... Staying and thinking I forgave him but didn't, I drove myself crazy thinking about her. It's not worth it.
My advice is to be strong and love yourself. If he loved you the affair would not have occurred. There is no accuse for this action. It is a choice that one makes. If they thought about you for that one second the decision may not have been made.
BE STRONG LOVE YOURSELF. NO ONE CAN DETERMINE MY VALUE OR MY WOMANHOOD. I WAS CREATED IN GOD'S IMAGE AND GOD IS NOT JUNK! I AM WORTH EVERYTHING AND SHOULD BE TREATED AS SUCH.
2006-11-03 23:43:57 · answer #4 · answered by sweetcincylove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, same answer as most of the girls around ... LEAVE HIM, it happened once it will happen again. I know someone that is currently under that condition right now. She accidently gotten preg while they were still going out, but during that time the bf was already cheating, so she figures if she keeps the kid and marry him she might win his heart back... but WRONG! Till today he is still cheating on her, and she has a son and daughter that's around 3 or 4 years old. She can't set up her mind to leave him but i can tell you for sure shes in nothing but pain...
2006-11-03 23:38:21 · answer #5 · answered by rosie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to go to therapy, ask him to quit seeing her, when he responds u will know what road to take. if he is remorseful,and shows he is wanting to repent, and go to therapy, and communicate more, than i would be open to another chance, because working on a marriage is always better than just walking away from it. but if he showed no remorse, and he wasn't sorry, and he wanted to keep seeing her, i would get a divorce as soon as i could, and leave the marriage with dignity, never letting him see my hurt, and move on and do well in life, i would accept the outcome either way, and either way i would do my best. but i would give it a chance, and give my husband the option of being sorry. but forgiveness doesn't come easy, they claim it is nearly impossibble to achieve. would take alot of communication with the person who caused the hurt, and u would need to know they took responsibility for it, and knew it was wrong.
2006-11-03 23:44:59 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him taste his own medicine by having your own affair with other men, simple! Don't divorce him because of this, make him lose face and go on and enjoy fun and joy with other men. Make this a fair world to live because man and woman are equal.Good luck !
2006-11-04 00:30:09 · answer #7 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a very straight forward person. I'll congratulate him and just walk off. If I have children with me, I'll definite bring them along with me.
If he can have an affair, why can't we? We too can find our true love and a person who really love us more.
Just to remind him that nowadays, female is more independent and stronger. We can stand by ourselves. Do not need to depend on him anymore.
2006-11-03 23:44:17 · answer #8 · answered by confuse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce him! A unfaithful husband is not a gd husband! But if u have kids then after divorce u shld still let him see the kids cuz he is their father after all! If he's not even a gd father then he's not a man!
2006-11-04 02:33:40 · answer #9 · answered by Ignatius corleone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the GUINNESS WORLD RECORDS --- if he's able to work 12 hr. days - run after grandkids on the weekend - do yard work for the elderly lady next door, work on finishing our new place - he deserves special recognition!
2006-11-03 23:46:42 · answer #10 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would divorce him or if we were going through a very hard time then it would take some time but I think I would forgive him and if he really loved me then he would never do it again
2006-11-03 23:37:39 · answer #11 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋