she is selfish, mean, conceided and a hypocrite.
she cares about no one but herself.
she is 304ish and im disgusted bu her.
what should i tell her?
i mean, i dont wanna loose my other 2 best friends.
2006-11-03 15:30:27 · 26 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It seems like to me, she is not one of your best friends.
2006-11-03 15:35:05 · answer #1 · answered by avery 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And she's your best friend? tell her exactly what you said, minus the whole 304ish part that's just cruel. tell her that she is bad association and you don't want her rubbing off on you. tell her in a nice way. but if you hate her because she has really bad qualities then you need to get away from her. or tell her that if she cant change her attitude and stop acting like this then you cant hang around her anymore. and next time, be more care full on how you pick your friends. Bye.
2006-11-03 23:44:44 · answer #2 · answered by KatieJB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She really isn't a friend then. Best friends don't hate each other.
Your other friends hopefully will understand that you need to distance yourself from this person.
I had this happen, not personally to me but between me and two other women. Let's say I am friend #1 then there is #2 #3 Friend 3 drove us all nuts. I had managed to hold my tounge. But one day friend #2 called and said that she walked out of a restraunt because of #3. And that she stoood up and told her off. Well there went our relationship with the three of us. I continued to see friend #2 because she is a sweetheart. #3 I avoided as much as I could, She finally moved away And fortunatly lost connection with her.
Thus the two of us finally were rid of #3.
It worked out.
You just need to have boundries and this person probably shouldn't be your friend, It the other two side with her, that is the risk you are going to have to take . You have to take care of you. Be strong and secure
2006-11-03 23:42:03 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that way you really shouldnt be friends with her. The best thing you can do, is sit your friend down and calmly (not yelling) explain that you need to go your separate ways. Maybe spend some time apart, bacause you dont agree with her choises and so forth and so on. Because if you continue to be "best friends" and you hate her it isnt going to get any better. You need to get away from each other and then take it from there.
Good Luck
2006-11-04 00:02:40 · answer #4 · answered by Galinka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the hypocrite !!! You say she is your BEST FRIEND? If she is your best friend and you think so badly of her then I sure would like to know how you feel about your enemies? Why do you associate yourself with her and you really don't like her? Why would you lose your other best friends? If you are so disgusted by her, why do you still want to be her friend? And why do you want to tell her anything? If you really liked her then its worth trying to save the relationship but if she is such a bad person then you should move on.
2006-11-04 00:04:33 · answer #5 · answered by Neetaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) breathe
2) figure out why you like her, and can you live without her/those qualities if you let her friendship go?
3) breathe
4) maybe sit down with her and just have a little "this is what's bugging me here" talk with her . If she can't figure out what you're talking about and help make it better, is she your friend? (...or live with her the way she is).
5) What do you mean you dont wanna lose you other 2 best friends? Is it an all or nothing deal? Do you have to like all of them or none of 'em?
6) Pray for her (yes, I advised you to pray for her). :-)
God bless
2006-11-03 23:40:06 · answer #6 · answered by theedman22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,I can't really see how she's your friend if she's all that and you hate her..and I'm not sure how you could lose your other friends by not being her friend.But alright,if you hate her so much,tell her what you don't like about her,and you don't want to be her friend anymore,just an aquaintence.And if ya lose the other friends,get some more!
2006-11-03 23:34:58 · answer #7 · answered by Afiya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so let your other 2 friends know how you feel make sure your not wanting to loose thier friendships then tell the girl how you really feel and if anyone else feels that way let her know and maybe it will help her in the future or show her that she needs to find a way to change her ways so she can keep friends instead of losing them.
2006-11-03 23:34:00 · answer #8 · answered by nuzzihuzzi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one hates there best friend,they may dislike the things they do but I don't think you hate her becuase if you did she wouldnt be your best friend.And if you tell her how you feel and she doesnt try to change it then find some new friends
2006-11-03 23:34:26 · answer #9 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if your other 2 best friends are really your friends, they will understand & respect your decision. i wouldn't say anything. just stop talking to her. you will only create dramma by saying anything.... unless she asks. also, keep your other 2 friends out of it by not discussing the situation at hand. that will probably push them away from you if you were to talk about it with them. they will feel stuck in the middle of the two of you.
2006-11-03 23:33:14 · answer #10 · answered by christy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be up front. Figure out WHY you hate her and then catch her with just the two of you and tell her you need to talk with her and tell her how you feel. Why draw it out and on and on?
Good luck. Pops
2006-11-03 23:32:53 · answer #11 · answered by Pops 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋