Mt 2 bestest friends are fueding,Karen and Yoland (I changed the names). Karen is leaving me and yoland and kinda thinking she is all that and its really anoying!!! When its me and yolanda its fine. When its me and karen its fine. And when we are all together its fine but when Karen and Yolanda are without me it all comes undone. I want to stay the winsome threesome. So what should I do? (do say its not my problem becuase its hurts me inside serious answer only)
2006-11-03 15:10:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
We weren't like this until karen left us for a more "popular" girl but when she dumped karen she started idk changing
2006-11-03 15:20:55 · update #1
You should talk to them individually and see what the problem is with one another. Honesty usually comes out when a person can talk comfortably with someone close instead of the real person themselves thats causing them to fight. Than you can get them together and have them talk it out and bring up good times that you guys shared together. Good times last longer than bad ones and thinking about them often makes people forget about the wrong doings of the other.
2006-11-03 15:16:09 · answer #1 · answered by vilikinia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been caught in the middle soo many times, I know the feeling. You need to tell the girl who thinks she is all that what you dont like and have the other friend help you. But, do it nicely and not screamin, jus let her know that this certain thing is buggin you. Normally, if they are real friends, they will try to change that feature if 2 best friends tell them it is annoyin them.
2006-11-03 23:16:32 · answer #2 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some times your friends don't share the same interests as you and sometimes friend are greedy they want you all to themselves. Another alternative would be to get you friends together and ask why they don't like each other and go to it from there. Best of luck. If you cant fix it it also may be time to get another friend if its not going to work out and you want to with both all the time.
2006-11-03 23:16:39 · answer #3 · answered by alpha0200gamma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might not be able to do anything, if they can't have a true friendship without fighting with out you then they might never be able to have good friendship. but besides that you should sit them both down and have a conversation with them explaining to them that it hurts you as their friend to watch them fight and that you hope they will compromise with each other.
2006-11-03 23:15:46 · answer #4 · answered by catherine k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gatta have a sit down with them and if that doesnt work then youll have to choose.. thats bad
2006-11-03 23:19:44 · answer #5 · answered by ceesteris 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find new friends make them mis syou
2006-11-03 23:12:51 · answer #6 · answered by dimondbacks7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋