i am 20yrs old and since past ten yrs i love my cousin(my mom's sister's daughtr).wanna get married.legal?

Question

i am 20 yrs old and since past ten yrs i love my cousin (my mother's sister's daughter)but at home they are not accepting our love saying that she is my sister. both of us are hindus.can we get married ourselves and can v register the marriage the same day under hindu law?will our marriage be accepted legally?or will any problem arise?we dont have the time to wait for thirty days after giving the consent form... or can we submit the forms in any other city within india like delhi and after 30 days can v get married?or after marrying can v register in any other city within india the same day or next day?

Answer 1

All I can say is YUCK!

Answer 2

I don't want to hurt your feelings because you think you are in love. Honey, it isn't love you are feeling it's lust not love.I know you really do think you love her and your heart and head tells you it's love.I know I'm just wasting my time telling you this because no matter what I say you won't listen.I will tell you this your feelings you have for her you will have a few more times before you get married.Please give your self time to live your life as a free young man.If by change you and your cousin get married you cannot have kids being first cousins and all. She is almost like your sister that's how close your blood is.

Answer 3

I don't know about India, but in North America it's not a good idea to marry a first cousin. The genetic similarities cause a high risk of physical and mental defects in any children they might have together.

Answer 4

Since u r only 20 years old u cant mary any girl. Because in India,
legal age for marriage is 21yrs for boy n18 for a girl. So u have to wait for one year.
Now, the main problem is that the girl is ur cousin.Dont worry, just convert in to muslim, not permanently only for marriage.In Islam marrying cousin is a trdition.

Answer 5

I do not know the law or custom in India. In former times in Europe & elsewhere it was permissible to marry a first cousin, but not today in the US, unless you are both at least 55 years old & sterile - then still that is only in the state of Nebraska. Sorry I cannot help. ;-)

Answer 6

Dude, yes you love her because she is family... Go out meet some friends get a make over someone will like you personality, maybe you cousin has some friends for ya... haha... Think about the children they will be mentally retarded and socially scared... dont do it dude

Answer 7

In America, we call that incest. Arnt there like billions of other people in India? Get out and see the world before you decide to marry your first cousin!!! Maybe that will change your ways of thinking!

Answer 8

I wouldn't marry ANY cousin....legal or not! Guess if you belonged to some sort of a cult or something it might fly, but if you DID do the ring thing....don't try to have kids!

Answer 9

OK FIRST THATS KINDA OF ILLEGAL ITS CALLED INCEST , AND I'VE BEEN THER ME AND MY FIRST COUSIN TWO WAS LIKE REALY INTO EACH OTHER AND MY MOM DIDNT CARE BUT HIS PARENTS WERE NOT INTO IT SO WE JUST KEEP IT SIMPLE TALKED ALL THE TIME HAD THE SAME FEELINGS BUT WE WAS COUSIN AND I WOULD OF MARRIED HIM BUT 7 YEARS AGO HE DIED AND I LOST IT NOW IM MARRIED WITH A FAMILY BUT HES STILL WITH ME ALWAYS, IM SAYING YOU LOVE EACH OTHER DONT LET NO ONE COME IN THE WAY. NEVER NOW WHAT TOMORROR BRINGS DONT REGRET IT OR FORGET IT

Answer 10

you need ti find love from another and you can if you understand loving your cousin to marry her is wrong .When your family it could make the children have something wrong with them .Its called insect I believe.Just stay friends .Family is important you cant have just each other forever.

Answer 11

No. And that's your first cousin man! Absolutley not. It might even cause some breeding problems (not trying to be mean or anything...dna issues).