Tonight me and the girl i've been seein "done it" and we used protection 1st time i filled the condom..we ate after that and i never really washed "it" off and then we done it again without a condom, i did pull out in time. but i was scared where i didn't wash off from b4 i was worried about the sperm still carrying off...do i tellh er to get birth control a.s.ap and if i tell her by tomorrow..will i be in time?
2006-11-03 14:43:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
How old are you?
Sperm stays alive for 36 hours. You NEED to tell her.
Do NOT have unprotected sex if you don't want a kid! The pull-out method does NOT work!
2006-11-03 14:46:06 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first off...using a condom the first time was smart, BUT honestly not washing yourself should be the least of you worries. Pulling out? that is soooo not a method of birth control. I am living proof of that! me and fiancee now ( boyfriend at the time ) tried that method and after only 3 months of being together I ended up pregnant. we now have a 6 week old daughter!
OK now think about this...when you first get aroused you have what is called "pre-***" come out of you penis. The same thing happens right before you ejaculate, so in all actuality " pulling out " is BS because there is always pre-*** to be worried about. As for the morning after pill it is to be taken with in 72 hours and the sooner it is taken the more effective it is. SO tell her to go to her doc. or if it applies where you live she can go to the pharmacist and he/she can give them over the counter.
Good luck I hope it all works out for you :)
2006-11-04 05:11:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always use a condom for each time. If you didn't wash off, some of the semen would have gone inside her and there's the potential of getting her pregnant. She should see a doctor within the next two days and get the morning-after pill.
BTW, pulling out isn't reliable either, because pre-ejaculate contains sperm too.
2006-11-03 14:47:50 · answer #3 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you've been stupid. Hopefully you won't pay for it. A drop, one drop of semen contains over 50,000 sperm (that includes pre-ejaculate). As far as not washing it there is a possibility that remaining ejaculate could have living sperm as well.
Dude, you were dumb and birth control, other than the morning after pill (which is about 80-90% effective) will not help you now. You better hope that her cycle co-operated with your idiotic behavior and remember this: there is NO safe sex.
Condoms: about 80-85% effective
the pill: about 90% effective
together: about 90-95% effective
but NOTHING is 100% effective except abstinence and sterilization.
2006-11-03 15:31:18 · answer #4 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl needs to go in and get checked to see if she is pregnant as it only takes a little bit of sperm and how stupid can you be never use the same condom more than once it does not matter if you pulled out before you went you still can get her pregnant you have sperm coming out during the whole sexual encounter
2006-11-03 14:48:47 · answer #5 · answered by The gr8t alien 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay this question really gets me first of all birth control will not prevent a pregnancy that already happen a night ago, two nights ago or even an hour ago if she wasn't taken it to begin with then it is too late to do something about it now....if she is pregnant then she is pregnant, but I agree with all the other people there is NO-SUCH thing as pulling out in time I wish all you youngin would understand that then there would be less teen moms and dads out there.......good luck to you though
2006-11-03 14:55:35 · answer #6 · answered by Chandra H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T EVER DO THAT AGAIN
you probably didn't have any on you for the second time, but you never know. you definitely need to tell her. to be safe she might want to get a morning after pill. but this won't help if she has already been impregnated.
BY THE WAY the withdrawal method is the least effective method of birth control. keep a stock of condoms handy if you insist on having premarital sex.
2006-11-03 14:59:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are trying to have a baby, don't ever do without a condom again. Old dried up skizz can't get someone pregnant. But pre-ejac can, because it's more concentrated with sperm than when you actually finish. Birth control is really bad for you, so don't ask her to do that.
2006-11-03 14:45:29 · answer #8 · answered by DumBlonD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sperm don't last that long outside the body.
Yet any sex without a condom is just not advisable.
Just to put it in perspective. Women are a liability, and if you get
one prego... you will be in an 18 year long prison.
To this date, there has been no woman worth the cost to get rid of her. Take my advice and avoid any transmission of body fluids.
2006-11-03 14:48:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty sure the little spermies from the first time would have all been dead but there no such thing as pulling out "in time" because before you ejaculate you will have whats called pre-*** that is basically leakage of semen/sperm during sex so there is still a chance of pregnancy. Plus STDs... tell her.
2006-11-03 14:47:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋