There is a girl that I really like. She goes to my college. I think that she might be bi but I am not sure. She knows that I am a lesbian and she is ok with it. I asked her if she was gay and she didn't give me a direct answer. She has a boyfriend right now and I always tell her she should dump him. She says she would not dump him till I found someone to take his place cause she dosen't want to be lonely. She knows that I have a crush but she dosen't know that it is her(or acts like she dosen't know). My roommate knows that I like the girl and the last few times I invited her over to my dorm room, my roommate would lightly hint to the girl that I liked her. Also when I invite her over, she is always talking to him on the phone and I will tell her to hang up. She notices that I only tell her to hang up the phone when it's him. Should I tell her that I like her? Do yall think she is bi? What should I say to break the ice and find out if she is bi and if she would be interested in me?
2006-11-03 14:40:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
She hasn't really told her boyfriend about me. He probably just thinks I am just another one of her friends
2006-11-03 14:53:50 · update #1
I think that you are coming across as being too pushy. She has a boyfriend, and you "tell her she should dump him". She tells you that she is talking to her boyfriend and you "tell her to hang up". Just because she is OK with you being a lesbian doesn't mean that she wants to be in a relationship with you (especially since she is already in a relationship that you seem to want to break up). Instead of spending all of this time and effort on a crush that is not responding to your obvious hints, you should find someone that takes more of an interest in you.
2006-11-03 15:04:40 · answer #1 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... i does no longer say i'm an expert on dating advice yet good day i'm going to continuously attempt to help a sprint out! I certainly think of that she's attracted to you. She could desire to be dealing with an exceptionally no longer common time genuine now and could want somebody there for her yet on the comparable time she in all probability needs it sluggish on my own. perhaps she's scared to bounce genuine returned right into a dating. i think you are able to desire to objective to coach to her which you would be the choice of what her ex replaced into. Loving, being concerned, and respectful. wish I helped.
2016-10-21 05:45:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of this matters. She has a b/f. She's enjoying your attention, but I'm going to harbor a guess here and she's using it to make him jealous. Any woman who always has to have someone to not be lonely, doesn't have enough going on upstairs to be worth the effort.
You need to think about why you have fixated on this unavailable woman and are not out there getting involved with someone without strings attached. Find the campus's GLBT group and get involved, you cannot be the only lesbian on campus.
2006-11-03 14:48:23 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think she's messing with your head, and trying to make her boyfriend jealous at the same time. move on to something better. she's not really interested. if she was she wouldn't be talking to him while she's with you.
2006-11-03 15:28:52 · answer #4 · answered by whatup 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋