help me out please?

Question

ok i dont understand what people mean when they say im gay im not hateing on gay people but how do you become gay or lesbion and what do gay people think like i mean are the gay girls always looking at straight girls? im about as straight as it comes i would just like to understand people like that so if you know anything please tell me and if u r gay i dont mean anything bad

Answer 1

lesb/gay, some maybe born this way, others may not. I used to dislike them, but at a later stage, I find myself attracted to e same sex also. It can be very personal preference, like straight hope to spend their life w/ e opposite sex n they find happiness n satisfaction in tat, u noe...but we prefer to find happiness w/ e same sex as we feel that each other can be more understanding n caring than to understand e opposite sex.
And other wise, I personally felt that, our "Creator" played a trick on us somehow. Eg, some gals can be born w/ handsome face, body/behaviour/heart n sexual preference of a guy, and vice versa, which others may not understand. They started to mock on y do one wanna behave like tis n like tat, family members can be e one giving e most penalization ....at times, we ourselves cant understand it n it can be quit saddening . But, we've learnt to slowly accept n like ourselves.
Like me, I posed more attractive n popular among gals than to guys. Gal who r straight can fail in love w/ me. they don understand it also. No! they r not lesbian at all n they freak out aft tat. But no guys ever want to get tat close to me..... this could be e reason y I slowly prefer to find a gal partner to spend my life w/.
Hack care abt other call u gay or wat so ever. Straight jus use these name w/o understanding...... So, no matter wat type of fren u might met, lesb/gay, do be kind to them 'cos we need to find understanding frens oso.

Answer 2

It means we were born likeing the same sex. Just like you were born likeing the opposite sex. If a lesbian is looking for a relationship with a straight girl it isn't going to happen just like if a gay man wants to have a relationship with a straight man, it isn't going to happen. I'm sure some gay girls wish they could be with some straight girls but it's only wishful thinking on their part.

Answer 3

Like someone else said, you just start to notice one day that the same sex is attractive to you for some reason.
I am a woman, and for me it was the most natural thing in the world when I started noticing how beautiful women really are. I was already attracted to men of course, but I was raised southern baptist; so I thought it was disgusting to look at another women.
Lo and behold, I couldn't resist and just had genuine feelings. I like both men and women. I am very much into relationships and have had my fair share. I have learned so much about both sexes. It has made me the well rounded person I am today and not so judgemental.
I have found the one true love of my life, a man, and am now happy in life and love.

Answer 4

You don't really become gay, you just gradually realize that that you are attracted to the same sex that you are. Gay guys and girls notice people that they find attractive, and if the ones that they notice are not gay they can still find them attractive but know that nothing will ever happen between them. Once you know that the person you find attractive isn't sexually attracted to you, you just move on and find someone else who is attractive that is sexually attracted to you.

Answer 5

Sexual preference is a grey area, but I will try to explain:
Homophobic people are often gays in denial,
Some Gays hate Bisexuals,
Some Straits hate gays,
Some Bisexuals hate straits,

And somewhere in there is a whole other mess of issues.

Answer 6

ok, i'm straight, but i guess the people who are gay or les. are just more attracted to their own sex. i can't ever understand that, but that's how it is.

Answer 7

You may be posting offensive, disrespectful questions.

Born that way.

No.

Ask yourself before you post a question "does this make sense and if my mother was a Lesbian, would it offend her?". That will avoid a whole lot of misunderstandings.

Answer 8

Gays look for anyone who is willing to be in a relationship.

Answer 9

I'm not gay im fully straight. I my religion in Penecostal.

Answer 10

in accordance what you have written, i will tell that he likes you, and he has advised you that few days after your supply, could be he basically needs a relationship with you in a possible way, unlike "pals with reward"... Cuddling-snoozing with basically hugging your better half is likewise one way of admire and love... you need to make sparkling it with him after all. i assume that must be the main suitable way! sturdy success for you in that :)