okay so im a 15 year old girl and a sophmore in highschool. im not the most popuar orrrr a nerdy girl in school. people have told me im pretty becasue im tan italian tall and have brown hair and blue green eyes. but the problem is.. i have hardly ANY boobs and its driving me nuts. boys in my grade are obsessed with any girl that has huge boobs and i feel like thats the only thing holding me back from getting a boyfriend and is seriously lowering my self esteem.i dont know what to do! i never had a boyfriend yet nor have been kissed and thats just plain out wierd.
2006-11-03 14:02:40 · 14 answers · asked by alexa 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Screw them.
Italians are the best kind of people around. I know. I am one. =D Besides, you don't need boobs to be beautiful. If you have something, flaunt it. Or, in your case, if you have nothing...flaunt it anyway!
2006-11-04 10:39:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry- the first comment I made sounded a bit insensitive.
I know what it feels like to be boob-less and have no boyfriend- and it sucks, and pretty hard to ignore.
Generally, as you get older, guys are supposed to care less about stuff like boobs, etc.... and more on personality.
And I think your boobs stop growing at gae 18, so there is still time.
But if you want a boyfriend, maybe you can look for a guy sort of in the same position as you, or become friends with guys- once they get to know you they might look beyond your boobs.
There is a girl at my school who sounds EXACTLY like you (tall, italian, blue/green eyes, small boobs, sophmore, not popular/nerdy, although she isn't tan) but she somehow managed to have the most male admirers without being a slut at all, so I guess that means something
good luck
2006-11-03 14:20:01 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
15 is still pretty young and you are still, don't worry about it. Some people don't starting dating until they are 20 and get their first kiss after that. You obviously want to start before that, and when it come to dating boobs shouldn't matter. As the first answerer said, If a guy only really cares about yours boobs and not how you are in the inside, they aren't worth dating. Also, if you want you could wear a padded bra or stuff, but i don't recommend it...
2006-11-04 00:49:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, that does not matter. You shouldn't date anyone who only looks for those because they are pervs. The right guy will come eventually, even if it takes years. Dating isn't that big of a deal anyways. You wouldn't be able to do some things you used to do.
I am also a sophomore who's 15, and I don't have a problem with waiting. You should just wait for the right guy to show up. Again, boobs don't matter; personality does.
2006-11-03 19:23:13 · answer #4 · answered by Kenneth S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a guy perspective don't even worry about it. I'm sure you are beautiful young women and shouldn't worry about things like this. Guys that act this way are very immature and you don't want a guy like this. You need someone that will love and care for you the way you deserve to be treated.
If you want my opinion petite girls with natural or small sized features are the most beautiful.
As you get older your boobs will get bigger trust me!
FYI: Don't get implants either, my wife got implants when she was 20 and now at 22 and pregnant hers are uncomfortable.
2006-11-03 19:33:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, its not weird and you haven't stopped growing. I don't care what anyone says boobs are NOT all that will make you a good girlfriend. It's called CLASS. You can act like a lady, dress like a lady, talk like a lady and have the standards of a lady and that will get a boyfriend (that will last) quicker than a lot of the big boobed gals out there. Trust me. . . been there. . . done that. Would much rather have class than a gal with big boobs.
2006-11-03 14:08:59 · answer #6 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really feel like having a larger chest would boost your self esteem, you can try wearing a heavily padded bra - also there are silicone paddings which you can place in your bra to enhance the size of your chest further - this is a great alternative to getting breast implants. I know a 20 year old girl who wears them on a regular basis and she is very satisfied. You can start wearing a padded bra after a summer break, that way it won't be suspicious if one day you're coming in with a noticably larger chest, and it will seem like they just naturally grew/developed over the summer. On another note, it's been scientifically proven that boys mature slower than girls, so since you're 15, the guys around your age are about 12-13 in terms of their mentality, so why even bother trying to please them? Technically, they're children. One day you will meet a mature guy who will love you for the individual you are and he will not care about what size your chest is - until then, don't sweat yourself over this - the types of guys that will be attracted to you solely because of a large chest are not worth the time to begin with - they are conceited and shallow, and will stare down any other girl with a bigger chest if they see one. You shouldn't feel like you're in a competition to finally get your first boyfriend, first kiss, or be noticed by these boys - you have so much time for that, it's not worth rushing into it - most times first loves end in heartbreaks anyway. Don't set yourself up for a dissapointment by getting involved with these immature boys because it will end in tears - save yourself the heartache and concentrate on strengthening your character and attaining good grades instead, so that you will get into a good college. I bet you 99.9% of your girl friends who got involved with these types of imature boys have had their hearts broken in a few months by them and then wished they'd never even started dating them in the first place - I was in your situation several years ago, and let me tell you, it is so not worth it in the end trying to appeal to these types of boys - it never ends well. In two years when you'll go to college you won't even remember most of these guys - you will then meet older, more mature, respectful guys who like you for YOU and not for your chest.
2006-11-03 15:20:22 · answer #7 · answered by Angie A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what if you got Amuros (As, after the DJ Amuro song, A)?
I'm 12, and I somehow picture me a sophmore in high school without a girl!
Those idiots are looking for some hot stuff, not to mention some fun, if you catch my drift.
Try being more social. If you keep trying, you will get that guy.
Now, those turded girls that got 20 ouncers (Cs) or lits (Ds or DDs), they are looking for the bat, if ya know what I mean.
You have something special, and it sure don't involve your cans.
IM me (ska_dj45) for some more advice.
From Sean Zachary Roberson, A Ska Master
2006-11-03 14:51:02 · answer #8 · answered by ZZ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If guys don't like you for who you are inside then you shouldn't want them anyway. You deserve to have a guy that likes you for you not how big your boobs are that doesn't make a person. Don't be in a hurry to kiss guys and do so much just let it happen when it happens.
2006-11-03 14:06:29 · answer #9 · answered by Sakora 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Body image seems to be of upmost importance these days. I do know a girl who is really thin and pretty but is 20 years old and her chest is flat as a board. I'm sure it bothers her as well, but think of it like this "would you rather get used for your body or accepted for what you have and loved for who you are?" It could be much worse, so be thankful for what you do have and you'll be ok.
2006-11-03 14:09:03 · answer #10 · answered by Angie K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, grow up! You're only 15 and you're worried about your boobs and how guys look at you? You grow until you're 18 and you should be focusing on your studies, not lame guys who are going to end up hurting you.
2006-11-03 14:51:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋