well... so she meets this guy.. who HAS a girl friend... and tells my best friend hes gonna dump her for my best friend... i warned her.."he did this to ____ and now its happening to you.. i dont want you to get hurt..." and guess what... he stayed with his other GF... she dweelled all day today at school and i call her after school to see if she was all good... her response "oh hey, umm hes over here right now we are hangin out with ___ too." ok... well and then she asks can i tlk to you later... i dunno... and NO WAY am i jealous... i just feel like shes been actin weird ever since... and i feel like im losing my best friend.. and beleive me ive tried talking to her.. it hasnt worked yet...
2006-11-03 13:48:10 · 2 answers · asked by snwbordluvr837 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Accept it as part of life. It is not possible for any person to follow there friend through life making decisions for them. Even though we think we can. She, as well as yourself, will have to learn life's mistakes from your own experiences. If you get all caught up in her drama, it will make you crazy!!! She will not admit she was wrong this quick. She will come around sooner or later and either you will be there for her & except her faults and lack of common sense as a friend or you will get tired and move on to your own lifes adventures with other friends. You can't do anything about it it's just the way life goes. Half the fun of life is having the opportunity to do what you want. You can however learn from her mistakes and make better decisions for yourself!!!!
2006-11-03 13:51:25 · answer #1 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hang in there girl. You haven't lost your best friend. She's found something new and exciding. Give her a little space Be happy for her. True friends are supportive of each other and if you're a true friend she will be your friend for life.
2006-11-03 22:15:29 · answer #2 · answered by nellas1150@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋