you found out your bf lied to you for months about something in his past bc he knew how crushed you would be if you found out -- he knew you would leave him if he told you -- and he thought he was protecting the relationship by keeping it away from you?
and meanwhile you fell in love with him, and he fell in love with you, and you were very happy together but now, upon finding this out, you are upset and questioning trust... but youre so in love with him?
what would you do if it were you?
2006-11-03 13:38:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it´s human to make a mistake....and is great to forgive someone you love....take you´re time to let this bad feelings go....and to trust him again, good luck! (I´m argentinian, so excuse my writing!!)
2006-11-03 13:46:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately that love is based on lies. If you decide to work things out you need to let go of the resentment you feel toward him because he lied and never throw it in his face. If you can do that, then it's worth working it out. If you can't don't bother.
2006-11-03 21:44:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people have skeleton,s in their past and are not proud of them if you truly love him then you both need to put them behind you and look to the future not back .and have a good life together.
2006-11-03 21:49:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either you love him or you don't and a lie of omission to keep from hurting someone isn't necessarily all that bad
2006-11-03 21:43:02 · answer #4 · answered by randyman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is in his past, and does not affect the now, forget it.
2006-11-03 21:41:04 · answer #5 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋