what do i do if i am 15 and my girlfriend if pregant and our parnets wont let us see each other?
2006-11-03 13:32:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Sounds like you are in a bit of trouble. I would talk wiht your parents and remind them that this is your baby and you deserve to keep in touch with it. If the mother isn't ready to deal with the pregnancy maybe you should all go to a counselor.
2006-11-03 13:36:00 · answer #1 · answered by mktk401 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you were ready to take manly responsibilities by having sex at an early age so now it is time to take that responsibility seriously. I would suggest showing her parents that you are serious about supporting her and being there for her and the baby. Get a job, do all the odd jobs you can find in the neighborhood and send them the money with a letter saying that you want to be as responsible as humanly possible as the age of 15. Tell them that you will work and send as much money as you possibly can. I would send them money every week or at least every 2 weeks. I would show them that you are not going to abandon your girlfriend and the baby. If they need diapers-buy them. If they need formula-buy it. You are no longer a child you are a parent and need to take this seriously. What you do now will affect the outcome of 3 lives.
It will take time but maybe they will allow you to see her now and then. I wouldn't count on it happening too soon though.
2006-11-03 22:31:31 · answer #2 · answered by country girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you planning on keeping the baby? adoption? abortion? Give more details.. The best thing I can tell you is to prove that you are willing to do everything you can for her & your unborn child. You can start by getting a job. This is a tough time for all of you right now but you have to step up & act mature about it & prove that you can be a strong person because your girlfriend is going to need you no matter what.
2006-11-03 21:39:10 · answer #3 · answered by SunshineGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you are 15, I think you have rights as the father. I wouldn't worry so much about your relationship with the girl as I would makeing sure you are an active person in your childs life. You are just as much responsible as she is. You knew what might happen now be the man you think you are.
2006-11-03 22:16:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds bad bub!All I can say is try your best to be there for her.Do what you can for her.Then the both of you need to let your parents know hey this is our kid.We've got to make the decisions as young parents about what were gonna do.Let them know that the 2 of you are just as freaked as they are.Let them know its your decisions to make not theirs.Plus bring it up that they should be helping you 2,be being there for you 2,respecting your decisions,aknowledging the fact that its thier grandchild she packing,and more.Yes it might be hard,but its got to be done!
2006-11-03 21:41:48 · answer #5 · answered by Kristy V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you got all the lectures about how a baby is going to change your life and now you have to own up and be a man. You are going to have to re-earn your parents trust and the trust of your gf parents, it's not going to be easy.
2006-11-03 21:36:48 · answer #6 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are in really deep s***. But you have to look at it in many views. Theirs, hers, yours, and someone else's.
2006-11-03 21:36:23 · answer #7 · answered by otter7 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that sounds pretty bad. Do what you can for her.
2006-11-03 21:34:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋