them and now me and my bestest friend are in AMOTHER fight HELP PLZZZZZZ!!!
2006-11-03 13:00:02 · 11 answers · asked by dani 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
what should i do go with my old friends or be with the populars.
it took a long time being tier friends. 2 yrs to be exact
2006-11-03 13:01:24 · update #1
I have been in a similiar situation. The "pops" will not stay ur friend forever your best friends WILL! it is okay to hang out with them but not so much that ur best friends r jealous. Mayb try to balance ur time until u find out want u want. U could try having a party with both of them invited and c how it goes. It could work and b fun but b careful.
2006-11-03 13:06:32 · answer #1 · answered by horsediva821 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your true friends were there for you through the beginning. You shouldn't ditch them just to be popular. Your popular friends are just your friends now that your "cool"... just think if something happened. They would drop you just like that... and then your old friends might not take ya back. So you better choose your true friends. The ones who never cared how cool or popular you were... because in the end... being popular don't mean jack sh!t.
2006-11-03 13:02:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about being popular even if that's what's in right now.
just be yourself and you will be o.k. hang out with your friends and
not the cool kids. if you hang out with the cool kids then your
friends will be against you and when you stick up for them the
popular group will leave you and you will be sad and miserable
with no friends. if you really wanna be popular then just be
yourself and don't ditch your friends. maybe the cool kids might
even be jealous of you. HAVE FUN WHILE YOU CAN AND
DONT GET INTO THE COOL GROUP UNLESS YOU WANT TO
BUT DONT COME CRYING TO ME WHEN YOU HAVE NO
FRIENDS. TRUST ME THIS IS A TWELVE YEAR OLD WITH
EXPERIENCE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-03 13:09:02 · answer #3 · answered by ela 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you are out of high schol none of this will matter anymore. Just be yourself and hang out with the people you like. You want real friends, not friends that you like because everybody likes them. Sounds to me like you need to get your priorities straight. After high school, popularity is not an issue. You go to college or get a job and nobody cares what crowd you run with. It is real life and your friends don't pay the bills.
2006-11-03 13:04:43 · answer #4 · answered by L.J. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what u want to do. go and be popular but if they ditch u im not quite sure ur old friends r going to accept u again
2006-11-03 13:18:39 · answer #5 · answered by California Dreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
popularity comes from your old friend's opinions of you. ditching them is not going to help a reputation. don't try sooooo hard. have you ever heard the phrase ''old friends are gold, new friends are silver?''
2006-11-03 13:07:16 · answer #6 · answered by unhip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend time with the people you like and don't worry about being popular.
2006-11-03 13:04:23 · answer #7 · answered by Dianne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your old Friends as you put it have been with you threw the hard times these new ones would probably drop you when things got ruff stay with the friends you have
2006-11-03 13:04:20 · answer #8 · answered by conundrum_dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life goes on, you will grow;
Teenage hissy fits will no longer work;
Maturity is a wonderful thing.
2006-11-03 13:03:16 · answer #9 · answered by haiku4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you understand what a friend REALLY is, Im afraid youll always have drama.
2006-11-03 13:02:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋