When you hang out with a girl, it is just like hanging out with a guy. Women are so fun to hang out with when you are just friends with them. As soon as you date them though, they turn into a different person. Why? Why cant you just act the same way you did when we were just friends. Its so annoying because they always change and become really annoying and whiny. Is there like ***** switch that turns on when you start dating a guy?
2006-11-03 12:37:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Stop whining! OMG!!
2006-11-03 14:02:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when you establish that you are more than friends. You are saying that you should act like more than friends so others will know. Women tend to become more intimate and affectionate. Just to show their feelings toward you and to see if it's something really there. If their not feeling it, then they'll stop. That's when you should worry. They'll go back to the fun side, just at the right moments. If you want someone fun all the time, then you're better off being her friend. Tell her that you want the two of you to have a fun relationship. That will get the one you fell for back in your life.
2006-11-03 12:45:45 · answer #2 · answered by Ladybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well not all women are like that, but some are because they don't feel they are able to keep you if they act like a friend. They will want to be over protective and make sure that everyone in the world knows that you two are together. They also think they can get away with more stuff than they could when they were friends. It's basically a sub-concious thing that women don't really know that they're doing.
2006-11-03 12:43:32 · answer #3 · answered by lexis-gurl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For both genders, though perhaps moreso for women, dating is a
step towards having children. Most people recognize that having
children is a BIG DEAL. Its important to make sure that the steps are
done well, lest your genes not survive.
Sure, that's vastly oversimplifying, but its the gist of it: A sexual relationship
is a relationship that potentially may aid the genes into the next generation.
Like air and food, messing with the progression is off limits.
2006-11-03 12:42:21 · answer #4 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say this is a sign of immaturity and some insecurity. Sorry, you will either have to leave her alone or wait until she grows up some. Being that the two of you were friends first, this is usually a even better relationship and should be, because you already have this foundation of friendship. Sorry you are having these problems. Sounds as though she is insecure or not very in-control of her emotions. Good luck and God bless
2006-11-03 12:42:04 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know that happens, because i've been like that. They often don't realize they are acting that way. But it is mostly is due to immaturity. When you find the right girl, you will know, because she won't feel like she needs to get all whiny and possesive to keep you. She will still act like your friend, but you'll get to be intimate too.
Girls will always be a little bit annoying, but when you fall in love you won't notice it as much.
2006-11-03 13:07:58 · answer #6 · answered by Stark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we women react to your treatment of us and the signals you send. if you make us feel like you want us around more, then quit coming around, how are we supposed to react? if a man doesn't want a GIRL FRIEND as a girlfriend, then he needs to keep his fantasies in check until/unless he's willing to commit to take the relationship further, meaning, if not exclusivity, then at least seeing each other just as much as before and possibly even more. once we taste candy, we become anxious for the next time we can have it again because it tastes so good. hope this helps you!!
2006-11-03 12:42:21 · answer #7 · answered by vrandolph62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL, in general everyone changes at sometime, when we all hang out we are ALL friends but when you become an item things change, as they think YOU belong to them then so they change in the way of its different now because your mine, & i want you ALL to myself,
2006-11-03 12:44:10 · answer #8 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did u ever ask if it was you or them who was changing? Truth is when feelings are involved people( men and women) are bound to change. Would you rather be a relationship with someone you like to hang with or married to someone you can't stand?
2006-11-03 12:40:47 · answer #9 · answered by LaLa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What women are u talking about? It certainly doesn't apply for all women. I'm still my husband's best buddy and we still hang out like we used to when we were just friends.
2006-11-03 12:41:47 · answer #10 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both people tend to change in relationships . Not just the woman .
2006-11-03 12:49:33 · answer #11 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋