i keep loosing points but i gotta ask!?

Question

there's nothing wrong with my sex life with my husband. however, he's old fashion. he's religious. he doesn't like toys and porno's yeah, i can hear u now. WHAT!! seriously
i like fore play and well he doesn't. we both turning 20. me n dec. him in feb. so any ideas how to spruce it up a bit. how about some pleasure points. we seem to both be doing fine in pleasing one another. but i like it kinda wild. evry once in a while he's full of crazy energy and i love it!! but what r some things that i can do. i don't want sex to be a routin for us. positions, touches, any thing i wanta make kinki!! yeah baby!! LOL ok yeah ne ways....talk 2 me

Answer 1

Look, be spontanious. While hes watching T.V. (long as its not something hes passionite about) start vacuming, he'll look at you and you'll be naked. Woo-Hoo!!!
Go in the kitchen and cook. Take off your clothes & "accidently" spill something on yourself...Ask him to bring you a towel, when he does say forget the towel, why don't you lick it off?
Sneak in the shower with him...
Go dress up like a sl*t while he's waiting for you in the bedroom...
Be laying on the couch under a blanket when he gets home, be wearing something sexy underneith it...
Wear an oufit you know drives him wild when you guys are heading out for the day, by the time you get home, he'll wanna rip your clothes off of you...
While the radios on, just sneak up on him & start giving him a lap dance!!!
Turn your work-out into strip-arobics. He won't think they're so boring then...
Start getting him into"props" by one day be all classy looking & wearing a strand of pearls, when your about to bet busy, take them off & accdently let them slip between your legs, say um, that feels good, play w/ them a bit. Then be like, here you try, and give him a hand-job while wraping the pearls around his you know what...
Also do the same with silk, a pair of silk pantys or a scarf works well (wear the scarf in your hair so he dosn't think its weird)..
Let him do you while your wearing pantyhose &/or high heels...
put on lipstick heavly (one that comes off easyly), bring it w/ you & put it on the nightstand. Kiss him, kiss him all over, let him kiss you too, then take a shower together...(just make sure your hot water heater didn't just break...thats what happend to us when we did that...)
Get a sl*tty nurse oufit, don't let him know you have it...whenever he's almost better from being sick (like just a lil lazy but otherwise fine), put it on & "take care of him"
Once he's comphy w/ the scarf idea earlyer, try using it to tie or blindfold each other...
Put on a almost see-though shirt or really low cut jeans or a top that comes almost to your t*ts or plunges very deep, see if he'll tell you to change...tell him you won't unless he can get you outta them...make him work at it...

I have more ideas, but am tired of typing right now...

When my hubby & I got first got together, the sex was great, but there wasn't any kink or excitement or whatever...Now, about 4 years after we met, he'll try just about any idea I come up with, and even has a few kinky secrets of his own that he likes & enjoys & suggests we do sometimes. Heck, he has even approched me w/ some ideas of stuff he would like to try...a BIG turn around in things there....

Rember not to do anything "bold" until you know it won't scare him. Gradually "ease-into" kinky things. Try talking about ideas/droping suggestions first to see his reaction.

Good luck & happy f*cking!!! hahaha!!! HAVE FUN!!!

Answer 2

You can't force him to turn kinky though. YOU may want it, but if he isn't comfortable with it, there's no way he will be okay with it.

You are young--wow. That could be part of the reason.

Does he know how you feel about this? You both need to talk to each other about this. Explain that you don't want to get into a rut. If that means trying a little Kama sutra, great. Just don't pressure him into toys or porn to get you motivated. He DOES need to learn foreplay, but don't go so far that you alienate him.

Answer 3

Handcuffs or eating fruits or ice cream or jello off the body?
Maybe a 3-way? Or get a song that boyh of u like and do a strip tease? Man, there are tooooo many ways... Just pick one and try it! IF it doesnt work then try another one?

Answer 4

Buy a strapon and azzrape him. My best friend in Florida is getting divorced RIGHT NOW though, because of it. When he and his wife went on a second honeymoon he decided to add some flare to the marriage and tell her what he likes and she grossed out because of the defecation on the dildo and now, well, they're DIVORCED. In fact, I think the divorce was final last month now that I think about it. And no, my friend is not me. it truly is my best friend in Florida. He's a kinky old fart.

The moral of this story is to be careful. He lost his wife over his kinkiness.

Answer 5

i'm hoping i dont get suggested back, at this value i'm going to never make 2nd tier. ok. you need to tease his secondary erogeonous zones. nipples, facets of ribs, inner thigh, taint, prostate, inner calf, soles of ft, in the back of ears, neck. suited teasing implements contain hands, hands, fingernails, tongue mouth, feet (it has befell, its kinda cool). there are video games of domination, tying one yet another up and having your way, theres, omg, there is verbal domination, the place you may basically be in value in case you're saying what you choose the different individual to do, theres place play, theres the kama sutra, theres 3somes and orgeis and . . . . i think of I ought to bypass someplace and be on my own, for greater or less quarter-hour.

Answer 6

Talk to him tell him you have needs and would like the fire to keep burning.he is a man maybe he is just afraid he will do something wrong encourage him lite his fire.

Answer 7

try different places, with in the house, or outside the house, try all the positions, and ones you make up yourself.

Answer 8

start off by seducing him on the living room floor to start things simple. or say, please try this just once. keep it simple though, like put ice inside you before he does it.

Answer 9

Stop asking and research!