i keep loosing points but i gotta ask!?

Question

there's nothing wrong with my sex life with my husband. however, he's old fashion. he's religious. he doesn't like toys and porno's yeah, i can hear u now. WHAT!! seriously
i like fore play and well he doesn't. we both turning 20. me n dec. him in feb. so any ideas how to spruce it up a bit. how about some pleasure points. we seem to both be doing fine in pleasing one another. but i like it kinda wild. evry once in a while he's full of crazy energy and i love it!! but what r some things that i can do. i don't want sex to be a routin for us. positions, touches, any thing i wanta make kinki!! yeah baby!! LOL ok yeah ne ways....talk 2 me

Answer 1

I can be there most days between noon and 4 pm, when does he get home from work?

Answer 2

you won't be in a position to tension him to show kinky although. you will possibly choose it, yet while he's no longer mushy with it, there is not any way he would be pleased with it. you're youthful--wow. that must be a area of the clarification. Does he understand the form you experience approximately this? You the two ought to talk to one yet another approximately this. clarify which you do no longer prefer to get right into a rut. If meaning attempting somewhat Kama sutra, great. do basically no longer tension him into toys or porn to get you inspired. He DOES ought to examine foreplay, yet do no longer bypass so a techniques which you alienate him.

Answer 3

i hope i dont get reported again, at this rate I'll never make 2nd tier. okay. you could tease his secondary erogeonous zones. nipples, sides of ribs, inner thigh, taint, prostate, inner calf, soles of feet, behind ears, neck. proper teasing implements include hands, fingers, fingernails, tongue mouth, toes (it has happened, its kinda cool).

there are games of domination, tying each other up and having your way, theres, omg, there's verbal domination, where you can only be in charge if you say what you want the other person to do, theres role play, theres the kama sutra, theres 3somes and orgeis and . . . . I think I should go somewhere and be alone, for about 15 minutes.

Answer 4

As a guy that just got married I understand where you are coming from you should totally take control for a while if your man says no just keep trying he will enjoy it in the future trust me my wife did that it is so much better now so good luck and congrats on the marriage

Answer 5

You are going to have to speak with him and hopefully he will warm up to the idea, to make things a little more exciting is not a sin. And if he has a problem with it, i am not sure what you are going to do? And just remind him that anything done in the marital bed is not a sin as long as it is consensual. Good luck and God bless

Answer 6

for his B day buy him a book ,,,,, I think it's by Laura Corn,,,,,, 52 ways or something like that ,,,, it's a book where you tear out the pages and open them one a week and it give a scenario on what has to be done your partner dosen't know and you have to make it happen,,,, it's fun,,,, One of them I did was got X rated fortune cookies,,,, and we went to the Chinese restaurant where we had our first date, got up to go to the rest room and caught our waiter and had him give us the "special" cookies after dinner,,,,,,the wife and I made a pact to do what ever the cookies told us to do,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, well shoulda seen her face when she opened up the first cookie,,,, it proved to be a great evening 6 times that's how many cookies there were,,,, and that's just one of the things we did,,,, a new one every week,,, and some of the good ones we put back into the book and used again,,,,,

Have Fun!!!!

Answer 7

Well, he needs to realize that getting Kinky with his wife isn't a sin, i think you should plan everything, the way you like and invite him into your room and tell him to lay back and let you do all the work, get him worked up enough......he'll do what you want....don't let him use the fact that he's religious...that's not a good enough excuse

Answer 8

Well tell him if your Married, then its OK to Do it any way shape or form.

And Use scriptures. if you need to .

Also If you r into Kissing all over the whole body then, kiss him right at the Joints, especially at the leg joint where the pelvis and leg meet , but don't touch his penis.

lick it lick his belly button, breathe your hot breath on it. but wait until he's writhing for it.

rub your self on it but don't let him enter you.
just let your fur graze it.

waiting turns them on, and you too.

Personally I give him what ever he asks for and I expect the same in return.

Check out websites, they offer alot of Ideas.

Oh and blind folds, and feathers to tickle it with.

I lick the balls while i jerk it off, guys really like it.

try it.

Answer 9

You say once in a while he is full of energy. You should be happy with that. It gives you something to look forward to instead of expecting it that way all the time.

Answer 10

Hmmm . . . Something is seriously wrong with this picture. Hope you can work it out. It's real hard to imagine having problems with your sex life at age *20*!!

Answer 11

Use you "inner muscles" to squeeze him when he is, uh inside.
For pregnant women it's called kegal exercises (not sure of spelling). But it will be a nice surprise for him and a tiny step toward more new things.