I have already been told this were not dead,dumb, or blind. My husband tells me all the time because we like to look. If there is a attractive woman it doesnt bother me if he looks prefereably when he isnt with me magazines dont bother me,or tv its the constant looking for naked women that I dont get. You see these women and you notice no big deal but when you are happily married why do you make us wives feel that your wanting someone else and why do you try your hardest to look. I see an attractive man yes I notice but I dont check them out while my husband is with me. I am attractive I dont have to look sleazy to get men to notice most of the time I wear jeans and t-shirts. But I am just still trying to figure you guys out.Wouldnt you guys be mad at your wives if they were always looking at other guys all the time? I just want to make sure that its not a sign that he is losing some interest in me I will never be Carmen Electra I just want him to quit looking so much should I worry?
2006-11-03 12:17:33 · 12 answers · asked by 2wild4u 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I havent changed much I still get my husband satisfied he on the other hand has changed as far as appearance and i still love him dont out him down and I dont look at other men in a way that might hurt him and cause him to want to look for someone else. So you are all telling me to look at other men to get back at him well we all know how that will turn out I will be the slut then.
2006-11-03 12:48:01 · update #1
remember the time and how our spouses got attracted to us? Try to remain the same way (looks) as much as possible and for as long as one can. True, many tend to "let go" when they got their catch ... this in some way make the other's eyes "stray" sometimes. Looking is perfectly ok, as long as it's not "acted" on. But then, nothing is permanent - if you eat lunch everyday, there'l always be a time when you get a little tired .... and you look for a fruit or chocolate ? This is REAL LIFE
2006-11-03 12:29:23 · answer #1 · answered by PikC 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well to put it to you this way You are a flavor, his most favorite flavor. But after a while with only the same flavor a man and/or woman will tend to want another flavor, you said you only looked when you husband was not around which meant you were checking out the other flavors too. What I am trying to say is You make it sound like he wants to try a different flavor. You could just take the old boy to Los Vegas on a surprise trip and take him on down to the candy store as a total surprise and walk in there and let him pick out his own candy and get some candy for yourself while your there. Remember what happen in vegas stays in vegas I am horrble I know, but hey, at least I am entertaining
2006-11-03 13:00:23 · answer #2 · answered by sphericaluniverse 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you both are happy, that's all that matters. Don't let others make you think that your love is wrong. Even though a lot of the times it is men with younger women, there is nothing wrong with an older woman being with a younger man as long as all parties are of legal age. Stop letting people bug you!
2016-03-28 06:04:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best solution might be to tell him not to look at woman in this way when you are with him. If he fails to understand, keep telling him. Over and over until he "gets" it.
2006-11-03 18:23:26 · answer #4 · answered by ragged 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't look at other women. My wife is the hottest thing out there.
2006-11-03 17:09:03 · answer #5 · answered by californiarad 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just start looking at other men in front of him. Tit for tat!
2006-11-03 12:23:29 · answer #6 · answered by pullmytriggerthenblamemygun 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
looking is the least of your problems. Get over it.
2006-11-03 12:22:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
beuase the iwfe begin get ugly they dont dress as good as they did when singgle
2006-11-03 12:20:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
as long as he keeps looking and not touching, don't worry so much.
2006-11-03 12:22:51 · answer #9 · answered by Cobra 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
we like to window shop
doesn't mean were going to buy it
2006-11-03 12:25:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋