my husband wants us to engage in a threesome with another woman how do i get him to get over it
2006-11-03 12:02:51 · 19 answers · asked by amy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i think all men have that fanatise usually once they realize it ain't gonna come true they move on. tell him no and mean it
2006-11-03 12:10:51 · answer #1 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the humorous approach is to say you want "two guys and you". A threesome doesn't have to be only one way. Why should he get two women?
Now, for real advice! Get his head out of the smut! Obviously he's reading, watching, and dreaming about porn. Threesomes are not a normal way of life. When he asked you to marry him he should have dropped this little bomb shell on you then so you could have made a more intelligent decision on who to marry.
Right now you need to warn him if he even thinks about having sex with another women you will take him to the cleaners legally. Draw a verbal picture of how that life would be and shock him back into reality. By no means do you even attempt to entertain this self deprecating act! Your self esteem may never survive.
2006-11-03 20:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be thankful he ask you to engage in a threesome and did not go out behind your back and have an affair. What have you got to lose by trying it?
2006-11-03 20:17:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He actually has the nerve to ask for your permission to have an affair, and he thinks he's being clever about it. You should say, "Allright honey, but FIRST I want to have a threesome with another guy." DONT GIVE IN TO HIM.
2006-11-04 01:13:46 · answer #4 · answered by californiarad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You to get over him. If this is something you are not comfortable with, DON'T DO IT. Love and respect go hand in hand and he is not showing none of the above. Find a new man or no man.
2006-11-03 20:09:25 · answer #5 · answered by tammy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How bad does he want it hun? Looks like you might have to relax, smoke a doobie, and enjoy it. Its just sex, not love. Maybe you would like it? He won't get over it. ---ever. He might sneak around if you don't want to indulge. Or maybe you have to make a choice.
2006-11-03 20:18:00 · answer #6 · answered by hecatemother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could give it a try...
It is a common male fantasy..
You can either give it to him or refuse him...
You always pick the girl...She is not his friend, she is yours...
Never do a 3some with you hubby & another guy..
Girl 3somes with wife picking girls is usually pretty safe
and not damaging to relationships...
2006-11-03 20:28:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Buy an inflatable doll and introduce him to her.
2. Tell him yes but only with a male partner that can play with his anal region.
That should turn him off.
2006-11-03 20:10:38 · answer #8 · answered by mrspatpat79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a threesome with another chic then one with another guy problem solved
2006-11-03 20:07:13 · answer #9 · answered by mustang_silverado 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say the you want another guy I am willing to bet he would say no because it would make him un comfortable i would say try it
2006-11-03 20:56:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋