There is a girl that I really like. She goes to my college. I think that she might be bi but I am not sure. She knows that I am a lesbian and she is ok with it. I asked her if she was gay and she didn't give me a direct answer. She has a boyfriend right now and I always tell her she should dump him. She says she would not dump him till I found someone to take his place cause she dosen't want to be lonely. She knows that I have a crush but she dosen't know that it is her(or acts like she dosen't know). Should I tell her that I like her or what? Do yall think she is bi? What should I say to break the ice and find out if she is bi and if she would be interested in me?
2006-11-03 11:48:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Just come out and tell her. See what she says. You never know.
2006-11-03 11:52:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. When she told you that she won't dump her guy until you find someone to take his place, she's implying that YOU take his place. Tell her how you feel. She's just waiting for you to make the first move. G'luck! Hope things work out for you two. She sounds like a great girl. \m/
2006-11-03 11:53:07 · answer #2 · answered by - iceman - 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell her I'd found a replacement and when she asked who say me. Then again I always loved the gutsy moves.
Tell her how you feel, she may or may not return your feelings but atleast you could get it all out and the open and stop worrying about it.
2006-11-03 12:33:35 · answer #3 · answered by Rageling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just suck it up and come out and tell her. No need to be scared. If its something or someone you want go for it. Life is a risk anyway
2006-11-03 16:05:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to tell because a lot of girls like to tease. Maybe you should flirt and take her hand one day and say " You are so cute - why can't I find a girl like you?" ... See how she reacts.
2006-11-03 11:53:50 · answer #5 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her (in a joking manner) that she'd be better off with you. If she laughs or smiles, folow up with more flirting... if she wigs out, you can tell her you were joking.
2006-11-03 11:53:48 · answer #6 · answered by kent_shakespear 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she is bi and already has a boyfriend if I was you, I wouldn't get involved with her
2006-11-03 13:42:30 · answer #7 · answered by Dke 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take a chance, tell her. it almost seems like she is sorta hinting she wants you, but idk.
2006-11-03 14:28:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋