I plan to go to Sacramento from Orange county, but my dad thinks it's too far for a girl to drive there. I've never gotten a traffic ticket nor have been involved in an accident where I was at fault. Would it be that difficult to drive from OC to Sacramento?
2006-11-03 11:41:11 · 31 answers · asked by pureessence 2 in Travel ➔ United States ➔ Other - United States
maybe your father is not so concerned with your driving ability....but maybe more concerned with your safety especially if travelling alone.....if you were to break down and have no phone reception you will really be left to be helped by a passer by....and you never really know who that may be....if the latter is the case i fully understand where your dad is coming from....
2006-11-03 11:44:49 · answer #1 · answered by askaway 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your parents are making rules like this for you, then I'd guess you're either still living with them, going to college on their money, or otherwise relying on their funding. In which case, it's your responsibilty to listen to them. It's cute your dad is concerned and all but I hope the "too far for a girl to drive" issue stems from his concern for you being preyed upon (roadside abductions, car accidents, etc.), not some dated notion that womenfolk don't have the capacities to be settin' off alone like that. My friend is 22 and her parents won't let her drive alone for 3 hours, but it's probably better that way because she's a terrible driver and can't read maps. They bought her the car and she still lives with them, so she can't put up much of an arguement. Or, at the age of 22, you could choose to move out, make your own money, and live your own life.
2006-11-03 16:20:32 · answer #2 · answered by lucidparade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay you have got a bunch of answers now, what do you think? Do you drive well enough? are you used to driving on the highways? Are you and your car set up for safety? Your decision but, unless dad is very over cautious or will not let go there might be another reason. Maybe you could take some one with you. Or hit the road. My mother still calls the time I went to Florida At 23 the time I ran away from home and I had to phone home for money to get home sooooo.
2006-11-03 16:14:06 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off it is much farther then 5 hrs. From OC with no traffic it will take you 8 hr. but figure 9 to10 with stops depending on the time because you are going to hit traffic in most of the valley towns, unless you go Interstate 5. which is the fastest way. Still figure 9 hrs.
2006-11-03 14:40:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not difficult and Yes, you can do it!. But I would feel flattered that your Dad is worried about you..but he's not giving you any credit for being an adult and it's time to show him that you are. Do it! You will feel anxious and scared but trying to prove it will be a high for you,and when you accomplish it, you will be proud and so will your Dad. I have driven it many times(in an 18 wheeler, none the less) and it is NO big deal! You will have the worst behind you when you leave Orange Co. Good luck...I have faith in you!
2006-11-03 13:19:44 · answer #5 · answered by All 4 JR 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you still listening to your parents at the age of 22 when it comes to your autonomy? You've hopefully been driving for about 6 years at this point - and with no tickets or accidents, you should be fine. Of course, if it's not your car, your dad might have a point. You can tell him to get you a AAA membership if he's that worried.
2006-11-03 12:09:35 · answer #6 · answered by eri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think an 18 year old could make that drive. I guess it all depends on your maturity level. Are you driving by yourself? Will you have a cell phone? Do you have GPS or maps to get there? Where are you staying when you get there? With whom? How long are you staying? Do you have money to make the trip? Do you have emergency funds if something happends? But generally speaking yes a 22yr old should be able to make that drive.
2006-11-04 06:46:50 · answer #7 · answered by DemoDicky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Capability is not about age, but about maturity.
There are some 22 year olds who could drive to the moon and others who shouldn't leave their backyard.
And then there is the question as to whose car is it that you'd be driving. If it's your dad's, then, it doesn't matter what we think.
Personally, I'd say go for it, but I've never had a daughter.
2006-11-03 11:51:57 · answer #8 · answered by ontheroadagainwithoutyou 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are a responsible driver, and you are old enough to make your own decisions. I would do that myself if I had the chance! It would not be difficult, just register with AAA, they are awesome you get discounts at all different kinds of places, and they have Trip tiks, a map that is all laid out for you, with the directions, etc to the place you are going.. I love AAA, and stick with that Co.. Go for it, make sure u are prepared and show your dad that u can do it, and it would be a fun trip! Good Luck Ciao!
2006-11-03 11:46:48 · answer #9 · answered by alohaforever16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,my grandaughter who is 21,last year she drove from florida,to ct.about 1500miles.She had a girlfriend with her so she didn't make the trip alone,she drove right thru except to stop for food an use restrooms,we were all very worried,but she did it I don't think a 5 hr.drive is a problem as long as your careful an make sure your car is in good mech.condition,Your father is gonna worry,that's what parent's do.
2006-11-03 12:03:29 · answer #10 · answered by Lw's Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it would be a problem. You sound like a great driver. When I was 19 I drove a couple of times, from Nashville to Memphis by myself. Also at 21 yrs. old I drove from Nashville, Tn to Dallas, Tx, when I moved.
If you take a cell phone with you & check the car fluids (oil, transmission fluid,etc.) & tires before you go, you should be fine.
Hope that helps & good luck! :)
2006-11-03 14:42:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋