I have been having an affair for the past few months. don't get mad at me! They only reason I did it was because my wife got fat. Anyway, I have been having unprotected sex with a prostitute, who also uses needle drugs. Tonight is my wife's b-day, she will expect me to sleep with her, should I sleep with her or not?
2006-11-03 11:34:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no, go look up your drug addict prostitute
2006-11-03 11:37:28 · answer #1 · answered by classy&sassy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You already answered your question: You may have been exposed to deadly diseases. If you came home and gave me a disease .... I'd commit a "crime of passion" and just plain kill you!
You owe her the truth and to be tested for disease. Some do not show up for a long time.... so get help from your local health department or physician.... for your sake as well as hers.
It is a shame that you don't love her... because the outside would not matter so much if you did. After all.... you will probably go bald and have heart disease in your old age and expect her to love and take care of you..... how totally shallow you are.
It may be a kindness to divorce her so she can move on and find someone worthy of her love.
Sue
2006-11-03 19:42:41 · answer #2 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOU STOPPED CAUSE SHE GOT FAT! what makes you think you are still perfect. NO don't have sex with her why put her in health danger because you being ignorant! Mad isn't the word try disgusted. How would you like it if the roles were reversed? Didn't think so. You need to give her the option to leave you or try to make it work. At least give her the choice. Give her the best gift ever choice.
2006-11-03 19:48:55 · answer #3 · answered by Taz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Instead of sleeping around because your wife got fat, why don't you try exercising with her to encourage some healthy behaviour for the benefit of losing weight for health reasons? you can give that a try. exercise is for everyone.
2006-11-03 20:13:13 · answer #4 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a shame that you waited till her BD to do this to her but you need to tell her the truth, marriage is based on being true to each other. Apparently you want out of the marriage if your girlfriend is a prostitute.
2006-11-03 20:04:39 · answer #5 · answered by mandy3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? She got fat, so you hook up with a needle using prostitute? I think I would rather have sex with someone fat than someone with aids. So you are married, WHY? You need therapy man.
2006-11-03 19:40:17 · answer #6 · answered by Carey L 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
what are you crazy? What are you thinking about you need to tell her the truth but not tonight. You have just gone over the edge and there is no turning back now. Keep it zipped in your pants for now cause you will cause a major catastrophe that you will never be able to undo.
2006-11-03 19:44:27 · answer #7 · answered by postal_marg 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on what diseases you have. some actually make you lose weight, so give it a whirl. but if she finds out, you may want to see about getting a good surgeon, for when she bobbits you.
2006-11-03 20:02:22 · answer #8 · answered by siamesegoth2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but you are one selfish bastard. Get yourself a spine and conscience and tell your wife the truth. Don't screw her life up in addition to yours. You disgust me.
2006-11-04 01:21:30 · answer #9 · answered by californiarad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've jeopardized your life and your wife's life because you're shallow and selfish. You need to grow up quickly and get honest with your wife.
2006-11-03 19:45:07 · answer #10 · answered by little_deb_e 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your a IDIOT and what a stupid question , dont get mad at you hell i dont even care about you... You should care about your wife she might be fat but your stupid and she can alway's go on a diet stupid stays for ever
2006-11-03 19:46:58 · answer #11 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋