Did your fiance/spouse show any signs before they proposed?

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Just a random question :)

Answer 1

My husband and I were dating for only 9 months before he proposed to me. we started dating when I was 18 he was 23 and I wasnt planning on getting with anyone but we met and everything changed. We were together for 5 months and he bought me a nice car 8900.00 car so that I could get back to work and i couldnt believe it. He was so good to me and then he told me he loved me and I was scared I thought he was just saying that to get in my pants I was a virgin. And i was afraid that once i lost my virginity to him he would dump me and i would of felt sleezy. But he was the real deal a good man and we talked about getting married but didnt know when. Then we went shopping you know back when your dating and hold hands and all that stuff then you get married and you pretty much have to bribe him with something but anyway he took me to this jewelry store and we were looking at rings and he said pick out the one you like but I had to stay in his budget and we went to get ciggarettes while I was picking it out and when he came back I said this is the one. So he told the lady to get it out and he put it on that credit card got down on one knee in the jewelry store and asked me to marry him and I said YES and we walked out of the store teary eyed together and he said happy birthday.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

My husband didn't really show signs, really. My friend was keeping tabs on him, but it was a total shock.

A few weeks before we went on a cruise, he spent a lot of time with my parents--asking them for their blessing.

We went on the cruise and...nada. There was nothing! I was actually discouraged.

Then one evening, out of the blue, he asked if we could make brownies. On our first date we made brownies, but I just thought that he was hungry! In the brownie box there was a ring, and he was down on one knee.

It was perfect for us!

But no, I had NO clue. It was a great surprise though!

Answer 4

Yes, we both asked each other to marry, and both proposed to each other at the San Francisco Palace of Fine Arts, under a beautiful tree.

Answer 5

Before I got married, my now ex-husband did not show any signs of being physically abusive, he was the most loving and attentive man I had known, then after we got married he did a 360.
He suddenly became physically and verbally abusive, always accusing me of cheating and forbidden me from visiting my family, he became very controlling. He did not act like that when we were dating, we dated for 3 years before we got married and he never showed any abusive signs. He always acted like he enjoyed visiting my family ( my family is very close) he never was physically or verbally abusive. Later I found out that his father was physically and verbally abusive to his mother, before he passed. I questioned why no one thought to let me know this before I said "I Do"
I never met his father, so I didn't know about the abuse.

Answer 6

yes!! i kept seeing money coming out of our account, and he would say it was for his jeep(he loves that thing) and of course he thought it was funny that i would come back and say "all that money you're spending on your jeep you could have already bought me a ring" and the whole time that's what he was doing! oh and too he told my best friend who told me so it totally ruined the element of suprise so honestly dont look to much into it trust me YOU DO WANT TO BE SURPRISED.

Answer 7

well me and my boyfriend were walking and he looked at me and started laughing i asked him what and he said "oh man we are going to get married aren't we?" and i said yha we are. then he had got called up for active duty and went to iraq for a year as soon as he came back he bought me a ring. and we've been married almost 2 years now.

Answer 8

well he did ask me what cut i liked better so i guess thats a sign

Answer 9

yes we really knew before he said the words...loved me the first night so I knew

Answer 10

no not at all. it really came out the blue i dont know if he was planning it or if he just felt it at that moment.