IS IT strang for a women not to get an orgasam?

Question

I DON'T HAVE THE PROBLEM WHEN HE IS GOING DOWN ON ME BUT WHEN IT COMES TO STRAIGHT SEX IT JUST DON'T HAPPEN.

Answer 1

You are in the vast majority of women, dear, and there's nothing strange about you. It's not a "problem". Also, it's not even a problem if you don't have an orgasm with each sexual encounter. Women are different from men!

Answer 2

Every woman is different. The last scientific poll I saw this year says that women only orgasm about 10-15% of the time when they have sex. We need more foreplay, we work up to it over time. The more time spent on a woman, the better the outcome. It's not just about the intercourse itself, it's about the whole sexual time spend bundled together with intimacy. I'd say it's normal to not orgasm every time and if you can orgasm at all, you are probably still within the fortuate ones. Just so you are enjoying yourself.

Answer 3

You're not alone in that department. Many women have a difficult time achieving a vaginal orgasm. Try getting some literature or videos about arousal in that area and let husband see it. There are some interesting ways to stimulate that area. Best of luck to you .

Answer 4

You are not the first Woman to experience this problem.

The female erotic zones are quite sensitive. What is working for you, is working because you feel the pleasure.

Experiment with various positions and find the one position that feels good to you. Continued pleasure can be differ cult to duplicate all of the time. We all get pleasure at different levels of Intimacy. Chow and good luck

Answer 5

Don't feel bad... Most women have a real hard time reaching orgasm with only straight intercourse. My experience is that clitoral stimulation is really what does the trick for most women. Try playing with your clit while having straight intercourse. That should do the trick

Answer 6

Use your finger, that usually dose it for me.

And when all else fails switch positions. I find one leg over his shoulder is the best, that or doggy style and he can reach around and use his hands.

You probably just need clit stimulation to climax, don't worry lots of girls (including yours truly are the same way).

Best of Luck, and don't give up, it will happen.

Answer 7

omg I'm glade I'm not alone i can c u m 3 /4 times when he goes down on me but when we do it i have to hold myself tight and then c u m and don't let him want to have sex doggie style i just will not c u m at all but it still be good i just don't c u m like i think i should

Answer 8

Well, you should have a talk with him and if nothing else try reading a few articles or books on the subject. Your missing the joy of it all by not doing something about it.
Good luck.

Answer 9

i had this problem before....... some women have clitoral orgasms. They have to be touched on their clitoris to have an orgasm. Not abnormal. Alot of women have to have that stimuli. Try having him touch you or touch yourself during sex. You'll find that it will probably turn him on even more to see you touch yourself, and you will have an orgasm!!!!! You both win!

Answer 10

Alot of women have a hard time having an orgasm.